hasunoha

What experiences do I need to grow even more

Hello.
My problem is that I don't know what I should move on (experience I should gain) next.

As for work, I was placed in a certain position and taught my juniors
I've also been able to grow myself through it, and I'm loved by them
I think so.

However, while juniors have grown up and the number of chairs for positions is limited
I wonder if it's okay for me to stay here forever
I've stopped in terms of feelings.

I did my best in a situation where I had no choice but to do my best (successive retirements of seniors,
It was relationship problem solving, etc.), so I just kept myself like this
I think it's reducing the motivation of my juniors.

In fact, recently there have been a succession of retirees, and it seems that the reason was that they couldn't see the future.

I myself tried proposing various ideas at work
There are many movements, but there are times when I am struck by a sense of emptiness.

In private, I have continued to have hobbies and recently started exercising
I plan to do my best to improve myself by volunteering as well.

I think I still need another experience to refine my own humanity
Every day I stare into the air without knowing what it is.
Do we need to change anything drastically?
Please give me some advice.

4 Zen Responses

You probably don't need to change it... what are you looking for?

Having a boss like runa7 would be great.

I guess they've been seriously and steadily devoting themselves to their work.

probably, for anything,
I think there are periods of slumps, periods of getting into a rut, periods of transition, etc.
Also,
I think there are things like anxiety that come from age.

If you really want to make big changes,

It's quitting, isn't it?

Put yourself in the middle of rough seas like gambling!

I don't think they're thinking about that.
But I'm struck by anxiety and a sense of emptiness about not being able to see the future...

First, don't think about your juniors
How far can I enjoy myself without quitting, and find purpose in life in my current job!
Right.
Even if things don't go well, they don't rot and endure.

There may be changes if you work on mindfulness, something like meditation to calm and prepare the mind, which has been adopted by major companies.

People who have gone up to a certain extent

Furthermore, do you get loved by your boss and get along well

Do you look back at yourself and keep in mind growth within yourself

I think so.

Surprisingly, when I talked to my older boss who left or my senior who quit, I got hints from the same worries,
You may be able to see a solution.

nor
It might be a good idea to learn new ways of thinking and perspectives by reading Buddhist books, etc.

I can't give specific advice,
In moving and putting up with it, I think changes will come out if we continue.

Please clear your face (^O^)

“A better me” and “who I am now”

What do you want to be when you grow even more what happens when you improve yourself
What do you become by refining your humanity what happens when you gain the experience you should gain

MORE, BETTER, BIGGER

So what will happen, and what will happen in the end?

The answer is simple. I'll die no matter what happens. You can't bring anything. Everything I thought I had built up is a virtual image.

If you compare it, it's like spending your whole life pushing hard against a ridiculously large rock. The person who is pushing is trying so hard that I feel a little satisfied. However, nothing has actually progressed.

Then, they die in vain, saying, “Oh, life was like this.”

So what do we do? There are 2 types of religion. It's a religion that believes in a better self, and a religion that believes in who you are now.

Almost all religions are the former. Take good care of yourself and strive for it. In other words, that means I'm no good at who I am now. You won't be satisfied as it is.

So what is a better self? For me, it's a fictional image. I'm just turning a blind eye to the facts of the human body. Humans don't change much no matter what they do. Shinran Shonin, the founder of the Jodo Shinshu sect, guesses the essence of human nature if you are angry until the moment you die, if you have a lot of jealousy, anger, and greed.

In response to this, Jodo Shinshu is a teaching about believing in who you are now. It is a teaching that is forgiven and satisfied without any conditions. So it's free. Whoever wants to push a rock should push it. If you don't want to push, you can take a detour, or you can just sleep on the spot. If the person you want to push does it and it doesn't progress at all, the person himself likes it, so there's nothing to be depressed about.

The act of pushing a rock in order to be satisfied is called “miscellaneous work.” It's an act that doesn't change whether you do it or not.

And “Nembutsu” is an act that makes you believe in who you are now, rather than yourself pushing a rock. The Nembutsu of “Namu Amida Buddha” is a teaching that saves me as I am now. This is because the Buddha called Amitabha says you can leave it as is.

“Namu” means to become a devotee or base. The Amitabha Buddha, to whom I revere, says that I can just be me. So if you want to work hard, you can do as hard as you like. It's carefree. It's already been fulfilled.

Do you believe in a better me, or do you believe in who I am now?

Hatsubodaishin

It's about exploding and erupting your desire to be useful to someone in the world.
In Buddhism, it emanates Bodhi Heart, so it is called Bodhi Heart.
For example, in the Buddhist world and psychology, there has always been a phenomenon where something proper does not spread in the true sense of the word.
This is because even when it comes to popularizing mindfulness and Adler psychology, if such things become popular, people who say “to make money themselves” will always be involved there.
If you try to spread something sloppy for your own benefit by calling it “for dissemination,” something proper will not spread.
Humans end when they lose to the desire for self-expression or the desire for honor.
Buddhism is still not blossoming in the true sense of the word because such people are involved in Buddhism.
Therefore, in Buddhism, it is important to “launch (act) the Bodhi Heart.”
If it is for the public, for Buddhism, for Buddhism... then it is in line with the law.
If it's a job, for work, for buyers, for real high quality, for society, and for the world.
If the motivation rises to the point where the desire to help the public explodes, it will be a force that will save the entire company and society as a whole.
Please take a look at the politicians.
Someone is probably doing it for one or the other's interests.
People who abandon such barriers and completely abandon their selfishness, desire for fame, and desire are people with “virtue.”
Still, the feeling that something is good for myself is prioritized, and if one's selfishness is a strong concentrated sauce, emptiness will inevitably remain.
For example, I won't name them, but try to name people who are highly likable, even if they are TV presenters.
Occasionally, when you can catch a glimpse of that person's self is strong in what you are and how stubborn you are, it is difficult to become a poison that can make everyone feel relieved.
There is no problem with this if that toxic rhetoric is supported, but it may not be accepted by some people.
Isn't that whether or not you can feel the compassion and love that oozes out in that person?
Compassion and love are exploded by Bodhicitta.
Great saints aren't the only people who deserve mercy and love.
It is precisely because there isn't enough of it in the world that you should stir up that heart.
This is the most important thing in order to get rid of the suffering in society, the workplace, and the workplace, and create a world full of blood.

Learn more about yourself

Runa7

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

“The experiences I need to grow even more...”

I replaced it with Jousei myself and thought for a moment about the experiences that even Boo Sei needed.

That's right... maybe it means talking to various people about your thoughts and getting to know more about yourself.

If you just think about things on your own, you'll become self-righteous or complacent, and I think the importance of other people's opinions and advice is also necessary in order to fix biases around that.

I think it would be a good idea to express your own thoughts without being too particular about positions or positions, and by being aware of listening to them firmly during meetings and meetings, refine your plans/ideas, and make team proposals from your own, so that you can develop a sense of solidarity, accomplishment, and fulfillment with everyone.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho