Regarding your question about the commandment of immortality,
Strictly speaking, “not killing” means you can't even burn mosquito coils.
So why don't you just think of it as “not killing more than necessary”?
Not to mention humans, animals must not be killed unnecessarily.
Picking vegetables is not killing, but killing insects is killing.
However, if you get help from farmers, if you don't take some kind of method to exterminate pests, they will become insect-eating vegetables.
If necessary in order to harvest vegetables, there is no choice but to exterminate pests.
Does Niku-san aspire to become a priest?
If that is the case, I can't change my mind to keep the Five Commandments, but if that's not the case, and you're told to learn Buddhism at home, I don't think it's necessary to keep all of the Five Commandments right now.
I mentioned the commandment of immortality earlier, but there is no killing other than necessary.
When it comes to immoral stealing, it means you shouldn't steal, so don't do this.
As for the precepts of fornication, I think they can keep it, but Nicu-san is still a teenager.
You will probably experience a lot of love in the future, so I think it's fine to put it into practice if it's limited to “not engaging in immoral sexual acts.”
I think it's possible to keep the commandment of indecent speech about not telling lies other than convenient.
As for the commandment of not drinking alcohol, I think it's OK to decide not to drink alcohol, but alcohol as a communication tool when entering society is not prohibited in Japanese Buddhist society.
Drinking in moderation may have a positive effect on your life, so “don't indulge in alcohol.” I think it would be nice if you thought about it.
What is important is not to keep the Five Commandments in any way, but what and how to keep in mind, isn't it?
If you get caught up in shape, your way of thinking becomes narrow.
Precepts are for people who are swayed by everything if they don't have an arrangement, and they don't need it for people who aren't swayed even if they don't set commandments.
The point is, rather than worrying about the precepts, how to deal with the many things that will appear in front of you each time with reason and moderation without being swayed by you.