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I know I'm going to lose, so I won't challenge

I haven't had any events in my life that I genuinely think I won
No matter who or what you compete against, you always lose.
I don't have confidence, and I don't believe in myself.
I belong to a club involved in music called the Faculty of Light Sound, and it's a system where good people are selected when the band is divided into parts, and I'm also working hard to get better, but my opponents are very good, smart, and kids who can do anything competed against me
I know I'm going to lose, so I've always done that because I feel more comfortable handing it over to my opponent.
However, I also have a feeling that I want to win
Do you give up to your opponent or challenge them to the game
What should I do?

4 Zen Responses

Whatever the outcome, please challenge!

Toppo-san

I don't think there should be any winning or losing in music. Music is something to enjoy. They make contests and stuff, and it's a bit different to compete, and I felt that it was kind of strange that good kids were selected.

By the way, doesn't Toppo really hate losing? It seems that they think it's easier to give up, or that they don't take on challenges because they know they're going to lose, and they really don't like losing in their hearts.

Whether you win or lose, it's great to make an effort to get better. By all means, please cherish that positive attitude of making an effort. And if they can play a great sound, I think that's a winner when it comes to music.

As a result of their hard work, if they get good, they may be selected. That's a natural winner. There's no need to give up, and I don't think there's any need to stop taking on challenges. I will only do my best.
and will you give it away? are you up for the challenge? Please take on the challenge! Let's do our best and take on the challenge!

Results may or may not be selected. It doesn't matter if you win or lose. It's important to be positive and work hard. Please do your best. Senryu

If you don't take on the challenge, your regrets will remain, let's try it

I don't think music is made to win or lose. However, when deciding part parts for band members, there is a selection process, and they have no choice but to compete for good and bad players. Also, if they compete, there is a higher possibility that they will be able to sow. It's a bad situation for Toppo, isn't it?

It probably doesn't feel very good to stand in such a competitive field. I also understand that it makes me feel like I should stop. But there's nothing to be gained by quitting. Even if tough results are expected for Toppo, I think it makes sense to take on the challenge.

I have written the following in response to other people's questions.

Among what is said to be Anna Pavlova's quotes
“Success for me is not in people's admiration,
I am in a sense of satisfaction that my ideals will come true.” There is such a thing.
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/6923

Even if you don't get the part you want in Bunt, the fact that you tried it and worked hard on the lessons to challenge it will be Toppo's asset. It will be an asset for continuing light music with friends in the future. Rather than running away, I think bumping into each other won't leave any regrets. Take the best lessons you can do right now and take on the challenge.

It's strange that there are wins and losses

If it's light, I think it would be better to do it more freely.
Even if you don't join a club activity, you can gather and perform with people you like or people you haven't chosen.
You can also make a light sound club.
Even after practice, not being selected and not being able to perform in public also lowers my motivation, doesn't it?
Why don't you do your best with the goal of freely forming a band and playing your favorite songs at the school festival?
Also, configurations don't have to be bound by a mold. Whether it's 2 or 3 guitars, 2 drums, 2 vocals, taiko drums or shamisen, anything goes. I think that kind of free music is light.

Those who can't be good losers can't be great winners.

The title is a quote from actress Halle Berry.

Give in and lose.
Take on the challenge and lose.

From the point of view of “competing for positions,” they both lose.

But from the point of view of a “good loser,” what?

Will I give up from the beginning, or will I thoroughly confront my weaknesses?

The true victory or loss is determined not by the selection results, but by one's own heart.

In order to be a “great winner,” why don't you first decide to be a “good loser”?

I don't think the sound a “good loser” makes is comparable to a “great winner.”

I'm rooting for you!

Gassho