I want to be honest with my son

I don't know the details, so to be honest, I don't know how to answer, so please ask for reference only.

A son has a son's world, and there must be a relationship between son, girlfriend, and new girlfriend. Maybe watching it silently is one parent business.

Pott-sama

Nice to meet you, my name is Ryoga Taiki (Yoshikawa Taiki).
Thank you for posting your concerns to hasunoha.

As the title of the answer suggests, I think it's fine.

A boy in his third year of high school
Compared to when I was in elementary and middle school, my range of action has increased, and I want to play with girls! It's often that time of year.
However, children who played while young can become calm adults.

The experience of “I'm in a relationship but I'm going to do something good for other kids”
Actually, when you become an adult, you get involved with people, such as sales, etc., and also make a living at work.

(At this stage, there is no change that they are unfaithful to women...)

What I don't want the most
・I think that my lack of love due to my divorce or remarriage may be leading
・Thinking it's too late
That's it.

I don't think it's because of Pottsama's divorce, remarriage, or lack of love.
No matter how seriously they are raised, children can grow up in any way by accident in their daily lives, such as “I played a lot with girls when I was little,” for example.

Please don't blame yourself for your condition or circumstances.

And it's not too late at all.

Rather, it is better to think like that and always look worried and uneasy
From an adolescent son's point of view, they will feel pressured or feel hazy, and will expand friendships with women and lead to stress relief.

It's probably going to end in disappointment over time,
Shut up and watch, starting today,
Please keep showing my son how I spend my days honestly and actively.

I'm sorry for taking so long.
Thank you very much.

Ryoga Taiki

If you think your son is wrong as a person, you may have to point it out, but your son still doesn't say he's engaged to her on the premise of marriage, right?

If you think the point is different, “Isn't that wrong?” Isn't it enough just to say it to them?

If the son himself thinks that his mother is right, he will act in his own way.
But when he hears it, my son will decide what to do based on his own common sense.

The “sincerity” that a mother thinks of is sincerity considered from the mother's common sense.
Your common sense is yours alone, and not shared by everyone.

My son must have my son's “honesty” and common sense.

What's more, it's an adolescent boy.
It's no wonder that I have a lot of girl friends, and in my long life, sometimes falling and scraping my knees may be necessary for my son.

It seems that she is worried that her son is going to shake her,

For example, if the relationship between the two had already cooled down as a couple...

Is shaking dishonest?
Do we have to care about the other person's parents until the relationship between the two of them?

It might be rude,
Maybe the fact that you like that girl is the reason you're worried?

It's not that you think your son is unfaithful, aren't you just concerned about the face and public health of that girlfriend or her parents?

It is up to my son to decide what kind of girlfriend and how to deal with him.
My son is the one to choose her.

A son has his own personality and has a life.

It's natural for parents to want their children to be like this, but if they put it in a mold, they could stop their son from growing.

Children are watching their parents closely.
Judge for yourself what is good or bad, take what you should take, throw away what you should throw away, and make your own proper choices.

I think it would be better to trust my son more and look at him in the long run.

I think liking people is a good thing.
What is important, I think I have to teach them how to cherish the person they are in a relationship with.
Even though I'm a high school student, I'm still around my age where there are still many things I don't understand. I think I'm at an age where I'm worried because I don't even really understand my own feelings.

Mother, please tell your son how to deal with such people and how to cherish girls (people they go out with). After that, let's just keep it quiet. Even my son is a human being. You'll probably learn by experiencing a lot of things.

It's natural to have our breakups too. If we break up properly, that's my son's life. When you're worried, when you're asked, or when you need guidance, your mother may be in charge.