I'm not going well with anything.
Career choices, hobbies, romance...
Even though it's my own decision, I get lost, and little things make me uneasy.
I think the reason this happens is because I don't have confidence in myself.
There's nothing good about me... I've only been able to see the bad parts.
I want to feel confident. What should I do to feel confident?
If you don't have confidence, it means that your heart is unwell.
Lack of confidence must be overcome.
Career choices/hobbies/romance...
Instead of putting them all together, please break them down into items one by one.
On top of that, I don't know if it was once or twice, but based on those few failures, I think there is a decision that they will definitely fail next time.
But there's no basis that the next one will always fail.
Please calm down and think about it.
I think it's also effective to write in a diary or as much as you remember the events at that time.
However, that alone won't give you confidence.
So what should we do?
It's about accepting your bad self as it is.
You can only accept yourself.
Other people have other people's values, so even if they are temporarily accepted, there is a possibility that parts that will not be accepted will come up in comparison with that person's values.
Has Hishun-san ever had that kind of experience with others?
In the end, it's up to me to accept everything.
Accept your whole imperfect self.
The more you try to do it perfectly, the harder it is to accept it.
Also, it is said that there are doubts about what I have decided...
Be responsible for the decisions you make.
The fact that I decided was that I gave my GO sign.
If you deny it...
Because my own judgment is wrong = it will lead to my own weakness.
That's my advice.
Little by little is enough, so please put it into practice.
I want to have confidence. Wouldn't wanting to have it be different from having confidence? It's important not to dislike yourself, even though somewhere in your heart you wish that way.
Also for that
Don't compare yourself to people. Just look at that person. I think so.
As soon as we grasp things through thought, we want to evaluate values such as right and evil, profit and loss, likes and dislikes, superiority or inferiority. I do that every day without knowing it. This kind of thinking is unreasonable due to the two extremes of thought. The facts are just like that before the way of thinking, but by adding the way of thinking, they become negative.
We live beyond our way of thinking.
That's why I want you to value the facts.
Hishun-sama
This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.
Nothing works out the first time for any human being. Confidence isn't possible from the beginning when it's just born, is it?
They fail, and they grow while making use of their remorse.
It's about how to make the next use of failure without making it half-hearted.
Confidence is something that is developed little by little through hard work.
I still don't have confidence in Hasunoha's answers either. There is no such thing, but every day, we are making efforts to continue while reflecting and improving.
Continuity is empowering.
Steady on your way to your goals and dreams.
Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho
Hishun-san
Nice to meet you
My name is Dateryuho.
A lot of monks answered in sentences
We have all the great answers
I'll answer in the video ^^
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https://youtu.be/FlqMpKunJN0