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It's tough to work hard

I've been lazy since I was a kid. Even now, when compared to people around me, the speed and quality of work are completely poor, and I often fall into self-loathing.

The less I work, the more the burden on others increases. I don't want to bother you, so I don't think it's good to be lazy. I don't think it's okay to be lazy.

But no matter what, I couldn't concentrate, and I felt like I didn't like it anymore, so I quickly threw up my work.

I'm sorry for bothering others in this way, and even so, I can't help but hate myself for not being able to do my best, but I really can't do my best.

When it is pointed out that I should make more effort, I feel like I have a grudge against my partner, thinking that I am suffering so much due to self-loathing and sorry for others.

I think I have to do it. I'm exhausted from that conflict alone, and I think I'm doing my best, but I wonder if I'm just being spoiled after all.

Being able to concentrate for a long time or respond well and quickly to work is also each person's ability, so I don't have that ability, so I can't help but overdo it. Even when I think that I have no choice but to do my best to the extent that I can,

It's not easy for others to understand “the extent that I can do with my abilities,” and it's hard to see people after all, they set their own limits without permission in the first place and use it as an excuse to give up, and that they don't want to be spoiled after all.

You probably won't suddenly become a person who can work, but isn't there any way to make it easier?

4 Zen Responses

Don't be in a hurry don't be in a hurry, slowly at your own pace

Mitsuki-sama
There are differences between people in what they can do at work, what they can't do, and what fits or doesn't fit. If you try as hard as you can and still think it's not right for you, I think you may choose to change your job.

There's not just one life. If you think it really doesn't suit you, I think it's important to run away with all your might. It's important to work hard, but it's also important not to try too hard. Do everything slowly, at your own pace.

If you have rhythm, you can concentrate

If you are asked, “Are you spoiled?”, it is probably true that they are spoiled.

But they're probably not simply being spoiled.
I think they probably won't be able to compete.

I'm sure they're not good at creating rhythms such as work from here on and private from here on out.

As a test, how about fulfilling your private life instead of forcing yourself to work hard?

Instead of doing something alone, enjoying your private life to the fullest with friends or friends you can share something with is also a good opportunity to create a rhythm in your life.

If you have a good rhythm, you should gradually be able to concentrate on your work.

So, if someone acknowledges any small thing, you should change drastically in an instant.

I think it's not that I don't have any abilities, it's just that I can't demonstrate them.

Does success at work mean being recognized by others?

I want to be recognized by people. I think everyone has a feeling that they want to be praised.
But do people around them make an effort to be recognized?
Isn't it important for you to do what you need to do well and live your life?

Live a proper life. Set a time and live your life. When I wake up in the morning, I fold my futon. If it's a bet, arrange it properly.
Wash your face. When it's time to eat, I eat a meal. After taking a bath, I will concentrate on taking a bath. Sleep well when you go to sleep.

If you do what you need to do properly, your feelings will turn to the present. It's good to have confidence. You'll feel more confident.

When I want to throw it out, it's when I'm cornering myself. I don't care about the words people say,
Let's leave that as it is. If you're doing your best, that's fine.

Please notice that you already have a well-formed self there.

Make a mission in order to be lazy

The theme song from Tom Cruise (whose face is far away) is playing in my head all the time when I'm asked to do the job.
Also, we are focusing on getting it done quickly, accurately, and smartly.
Minimal effort, maximum efficacy.
You also say, “Ah, finish it quickly, go home early, and rest.” You just need to use this as a driving force. Then get the work done and use your time meaningfully.
You're probably lazy.
Then be the coolest slacker.
The characters in the movie Mission Impossible all hate working and overtime, so don't you know that they do such flashy actions because they want to finish it quickly, go home, and clean up the internet (lie)?
Namakemono is something that brings a genius to life when you turn your work into a mission.
“I want to be lazy, ah, so troublesome, it seems like I'll finish it soon.” ... so what should I do for that? Ah, something like this, ah, ah, it's probably like this!
You should be able to come up with a super easy shortcut to clear your business and the fastest time-saving technique. It's just that your power hasn't been drawn out yet.
Anata may not be aware of that evidence, but that's because the fact that you've asked this question here is already the case, right?
[Ah, that's troublesome. It's a super easy method if you ask these boys, isn't it? I came to this question precisely because the power of [circuit], which is centered around the genius natural laziness power, was working at a high level within you.
I mean! That's because you're a super troublesome daredevil! Here, I was searching for time-saving solutions with deep psychology. (I'm laughing)
Therefore, take pride in it and be more troublesome.
Also, in order to get lazy, you should think about a quick and smart way to finish.
When I can do that, I feel bad for myself.
Well, finally, here's my mission.
Oh, thank you to this boy, it's a hassle.
“Say thank you instantly and instantaneously right now with just one word.”
If you do that, the work here will also be mission complete.
Then, it brings out the mission spirit within oneself.
Well, my mission is complete. If so.
Instead, I'll put on a futon and go to sleep.
♪ Ending theme: Mission Impossible