I got into a fight with my friend

First, we should stop communicating with the above tools.
When people see a letter, they have a conversation with that letter.
They decorate those replies with more thoughts than that.
There are times when the other person takes it badly even though they didn't mean to say it. It's your own negative decoration. Negative deco, negative deco.
I quickly realized that all of these were my own thoughts, and we had direct conversations and direct dialogues, and since exchanging emails like this with each other increases the degree of misunderstanding, we should promise that important stories from now on should be exchanged other than email.
People who inspire by line or email are not compatible with that person; they are not compatible with exchanging e-mails.
“Well, I think you would understand”
Let's say I sent it.
People who take this negatively and do decorations that don't fit into their hearts = overthinking = think too much will take it as irony or bad talk.
Please reread LINE's email again.
Nobody should be blaming you.
Even if it's read through, it may just happen that it just happened to be inconvenient for her.
Let's stop hurting ourselves with our negative delusions.

What is easiest to fall into when interacting with friends using SNS is this kind of delusional battle.
They say to each other the whereabouts of something invisible called “responsibility,” and they both suffer from anger, frustration, sadness, and various emotions.
“Imagine” the other person's thoughts from letters ← this is a mistake.
Letters are letters ← feelings are not delusional. If you don't understand, check by phone ← listen
I look face to face when there's something I can't convey on the phone.

Look at the other person's face with their eyes, hear their voices directly with their ears, eat the same food, and sometimes hold hands
Isn't that kind of relationship deepening relationships with friends?
Why don't you use SNS as a tool for deciding the date of an appointment?

If it's a tool to imagine the other person's feelings, you can only tell lies.
REAL FRIENDS Cherish your real friends.

LINE may be a common means of communication in modern society, but until a few years ago, there was no such thing.
Actually, it's a tool you don't have to worry about even if you don't have one, but since it's convenient, you can use it in its own way.

However, communication in letters, not limited to LINE, is full of misunderstandings.

People write their thoughts, but letters don't express their thoughts as they are.

Let's say you typed “stupid.”

So what does this mean?

Are they being ridiculed?
are you being scolded?
are you kidding me?
Is it an expression of affection?

They'll judge it from the text before and after...
But the true meaning is only understood by the person who hit it.
The person who received it doesn't know that much.

Just one letter, “ha,” becomes “but,” and it has the exact opposite meaning.
Even if you only think about the meaning you can receive from the surface, misunderstandings will occur if you make a mistake with one letter.

Therefore, we must take it for granted that we fight on SNS.

When you meet someone and look directly at their faces, you can get through your feelings just by looking at them.
If we can't do that, we'll talk about important things over the phone.

If you want to express your feelings, look at their faces and listen to their voices.
How important are tone of voice, facial expressions, and gestures.

I'm sure they read the back of the letters to each other, and misunderstandings are probably causing misunderstandings.

I don't know if I can recover what's broken,
Why don't you meet once and resolve misunderstandings with your own mouth, facial expressions, and gestures?

If you speak calmly, you'll surely understand.
I'm sure there will be something your opponent can think of.

After all, weren't you actively trying to forgive your partner?
According to Buddhist precepts, you can't keep getting angry without forgiving the person you're apologizing for.
You felt like you wanted to get angry, and that probably made your partner turn their backs on you.
In other words, you are an annoying and clingy class chairman, and if you don't do well, you have a moral or stalker temperament.
In Buddhism, no matter how right you are, if you get angry, you are stupid.
Maybe you were just one of many friends for them, but you expected too much from their friendship.
There are cases where the attitude that you are right is conveyed to the other party and they don't like it, so you need to be careful.
My opponent is worried about being lazy, cutting corners, and making mistakes.
Meanwhile, you had an affliction of pride that you couldn't forgive, which led to the anguish of anger.
When I started getting angry, this time it shifted to the pleasure and worry of attacking my opponent, and I couldn't resist it.
It's a fight between worries and afflictions.
Worries The cause of suffering is one's own worries, so it's important to be aware of your worries.
Why don't you try to make room to forgive other people's mistakes and cuts corners?