hasunoha

How do I talk to a monk?

Nice to meet you,
I recently came across this website.
Thank you very much for your kind attention.

Right now, I'm struggling to get a job again.
I'd like to ask about 3 points, so I'm planning to post them,
I would like to ask the first of these questions in this email.

There are times when I want to ask monks about things they are concerned about on a daily basis.
I occasionally visit nearby temples and shrines,
I see that the monk also seems to be busy with the temple business.

When I want to ask the temple for advice,
From the temple's point of view, how do you make an appointment,
Can I contact you without any inconvenience?

Are there people in a position where I shouldn't ask questions?
Or is it okay to feel free to ask questions?
Also, how should I say thank you?

I'm sorry, but please let me know.

4 Zen Responses

You don't have to worry about anything

I think it's okay to visit the temple anytime. However, I heard it all of a sudden, and I think it would be a hassle when the chief priest is away, so I think it would be a good idea to make an appointment after telling them there is something you want to discuss via email or phone. I think a temple is a place where you can feel free to go to a consultation without thinking too deeply.

It also varies depending on the monk, but...

Depending on the denomination, there are also places where there is a consultation desk where monks can handle it.

The contents are also varied, such as Buddhist rituals and discussions about life problems. There are times when each temple is busy, so I think it's a good idea to try using the consultation desks set up by each denomination, etc.

I'm going to participate in a temple event.

Nice to meet you, Taputapu-sama.
My name is Sayama from the 500 Arakan-ji Temple in Meguro.
Actually, this is the first time I've answered this question.
Thank you for your support.

As others have mentioned, originally, a temple is a place you can visit anytime.
However, there are moments when monks are unavoidably absent due to funerals, training, meetings, etc.
If you can get an appointment safely, there is no problem, but there are many temples that are bothered by some kind of solicitation or advertisement sales, etc., and maybe there are chief priests who are wary of being contacted by people who are not religious believers.

It's a bit of a trick, but there is a way to visit a temple that hosts an event with a small number of people and end up participating in that event.
I think the monks who gather people other than believers and hold events are surely highly motivated monks who want to respond to questions and questions from people like Taputapu-sama. I want to teach Buddhism to as many people as possible and help them with as many problems as possible. I'm sure.

If it's a large event, it may be difficult to interact with the organizers, so when it's a small group event, you can do your best to ask even slightly unrelated questions. I'm sure they'll answer the most general questions. If it's an event question, I don't even need a thank you (lol)

At Rakan-ji Temple, we make time to talk with the monks after the sutras have been copied. If you don't want others to listen, we'll prepare another location at that time, so please speak up.

I'm going to ask you the specifics

 Here, it seems like a mechanism where questions are made public no matter what, but if that doesn't matter, I feel that writing specific questions here will lead to a solution the fastest.
Also, there are several places that do businesses such as “Buddhist telephone consultations” (similar to hasunoha, they are usually cross-sectarian), so why not search for them? There is a phone bill, though.
Furthermore, if you want to have a face-to-face conversation, it's best to go out. However, since compatibility will come out most clearly, “to whom?” is a difficult place. It would be nice if you could pick up a book at a bookstore or the like and have a “favorite boy.”
Is a “temple nearby” a place where people have become parishioners? If so, I'd like to recommend that one first... Seen from a temple, I think it's better to know that there are cases where the distinction “this person is a parishioner,” “this person is a neighbor,” and “this person is a stranger.”