What does it mean to get married to a divorced person

I don't really understand the mother's feelings, but they probably just want to disagree by attaching the reason that they are divorced.
There are also people who often say it's not X, it's Maru. What I learned from my divorce was applied to my life and I was able to grow. That's why I'm Maruichi.

Above all else, wouldn't it be nice if you were happy?
I think this is an age where people don't really care about divorce experiences.

Please be happy.

I'm worried about other people's opinions because I'm somewhere in the back of my heart
That's because I think so.

Otherwise, I don't have a single question,
There is no such person anywhere.
Somewhere, everyone has come to terms with each other in their lives.

What bothers me is why is there so much around me
It is your feeling that only complaints are raised from people.

What were your last words, your mother
I feel that it's something that won't change.

while fearful,

I wonder if you don't like yourself from the bottom of your heart
I think so.

I want to face it, but I can't do it, so as a slight blow
By having dissatisfaction etc. around you and dissipating it,
I think they're getting some peace of mind.

If you think it's fine as it is, then to Hasunoha
I think it would be nice if you could write a lot of complaints.
Like breaking dishes to relieve stress, etc., which is common overseas.

But if you really want to do something about it,
Each and every one of the complaints I've bumped into, a piece of a broken plate
Just like picking up and doing a “plate memorial service,”
We were facing each other, cherished what we learned and gained from it
It's about using it as food.

For starters, take a look at the answers to the questions at the beginning, and then do them one by one
Why don't you try getting an answer?

Being asked a question means “seeing and listening” to many opinions.
It's not that I don't think it's right for you,
There you can learn things that suit you one by one
I think it can be done. It takes you one step further from your doubts and suffering
I think it will be a source of strength.

It's fine to think that you want everyone to suit yourself, but that is
You'll just suffer all the time. If you want to suffer by doing that,
I think it would be nice if you just lived as you were.

Say goodbye to everyone in your family and to your mother. Gassho

Let's calm down first.
The relationship between mother and daughter only worsens when they play with each other.
Don't blame it on anything.
Let's get back to the point.

Starting with the mothers of the world, your mother wanted her children to be happy in a place you didn't know, and they worked extremely hard until the day they got married and became independent.
Among them, there was an ideal castle, My Vision, that the mother, who thought “I want my beloved daughter to be happy in this way by all means,” from her mother's outlook on life learned in the midst of seven vicissitudes.
Of course it's too intrusive for you. (^<^), but give up 100 steps. That's because it's true that they raised me.
What I'm about to say is, well, that's right, and I want them to tune in, if possible, without any backlash.
This is because it leads to problems and problems.
Please read it back again when your mind is in a daze.

It means “you destroyed your mother's vision of happiness.”

There, even if it's intrusive, it's a selfish world unique to mom...!
However, only the fact that you destroyed the mother's ideal vision of happiness for her daughter is reflected as truth in the mother.
Please tell them “I'm sorry, mom,” and “really, I'm sorry,” 10 times as a guide.
Your mom might not know what the comment is either.
However, if your daughter first catches her parents' affection, appreciates that state, and then conveys it, your mother can return to a calm heart.
The person in your mother's mind (although you might think that's a silly prejudice) who was supposed to live in a beautiful glass castle is gone.
Your mother is probably a pure person. If we start to listen more to public information, the day will eventually come when we can make peace with each other.
Please somehow understand that you weren't able to live in your mother's beautiful castle, and apologize and apologize.
(Actually, you don't have to apologize. But I want them to accept that feeling)
If you do that, your mother will complain, so you can have a real conversation only there.

Nice to meet you.

I was busy during Obon and didn't have time to answer them, but today I read all of the questions again.

I think it's rude all of a sudden, but I'll just write what I feel.

For you, whether your husband's parents' house is a temple, or whether your husband or parents-in-law are monks or a temple family member, I don't feel like it really matters even if you are married to an office worker's house.

The world doesn't work the way you want it to.

I am one of the parts in the world, and it is only when the parts mesh well that I can create something close to my own thoughts.

Just as you have your own thoughts, others have different thoughts just like you.

In the society that surrounds you, unless you recognize others other than yourself, it is impossible for you to be recognized either.

It is only when we acknowledge each other that we can live peacefully.

If you think peace is about going the way you want, then that's a big misunderstanding.

If you just want to complain about something you don't like, that's fine at all, but no matter which question you read, it seems like a conclusion has already been drawn within you.

When you're told to “make an effort” even though you don't intend to make an effort, do you do that?
You've received so many answers here, are you trying to solve something on your own?

Why don't you take a close look at yourself again and reread the answers from these teachers?

Your attitude of not responding to many answers and just complaining is extremely disrespectful to the mentors here who seriously think about answers and answer questions sincerely.

Isn't your attitude having a big impact on your personal life?

If you try to face people with that kind of attitude, there is no way you will have the peaceful life you want.

Before putting a reason for everything and blaming it on others, I think it is necessary to take a second look at how we have been involved in it.

Please reconsider.