How do we learn to respect everyone?
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I grew up being told “you're a genius” and “you can do anything” since I was little. It seems that they are actually blessed with quite a bit of talent, but they have a strong sense of self-affirmation, so I can't let go of my arrogant feelings no matter what.
For a long time, I've been plagued by various inefficiencies caused by working with people who don't have good work ability, so to be honest, I'm really bad at “people who aren't aware that they aren't smart.”
To be honest, I also had a feeling that “I don't want to work with people who aren't smart,” and when I was a student, I started my own business and managed it smoothly, but when I was 25, my lonely money making became futile, and I joined a top company with the goal of genuinely enjoying a big job.
It was one of the most difficult companies to join in Japan, so after joining the company, I really enjoyed working surrounded by excellent people. “After all, if you spend time surrounded by excellent people, your problems will be solved. I felt, “If you don't even get involved with people who aren't smart, you can work in a healthy way.”
However, at the bottom of my heart, I really hate “myself who looks down on people who aren't excellent.” Even if I look for parts of that person I can respect as a person and try to respect them, if I feel “Oh, this person is dumb...”, they will inevitably look at them from above.
I try to be humble over and over again, thinking that this shouldn't be the case, I'm arrogant... but my “dislike for people who are dumb” is strong, and it doesn't work.
I know that “cleverness = human virtue” is not erased, but from experience, the perception that “being bothered or disrespected by people who are not smart” cannot be erased.
However, I also feel that the reason I was born more dexterous than a human being is probably to help someone, not myself.
How can you have respect for people who aren't smart?
