hasunoha

Reasons for leaving

I'm currently considering retirement.
The reason is that I don't live with my work shift and my physical condition continues to be poor, and that passive smoking during breaks is painful, but is that sweet?
The workplace is an environment where you can study, and there are no complaints about the work content or staff.

It's a 2-shift shift system, but I can't keep up with being late, early, late, and early.
There are also people who work so hard that they go to work on the first train and go home on the last train! If you say that, it's true.
Wouldn't it be nice to be able to relax in the morning even if you get home late! It's natural to be told, but getting home late and not being able to eat dinner is more stressful than anything else.
Efforts such as making a lot on holidays and freezing them are not enough.
Originally, compared to people of the same age, the amount of food required is high, and it is what is called a heavy eater for weight loss. It will soon run out.

It may be said that there are convenient things such as convenience store bento boxes and cup noodles, etc.
Even if I eat such poor food every day, I don't feel the euphoria of eating and I burst into tears.
I have a healthy homemade diet, and I eat junk food once in a while, so I feel it's delicious. Food costs are wasted, but recently I feel that the content of the meal is unhappy is nothing other than unhappiness.
My paranoia of sacrificing my life for work even though I'm doing a job I love has intensified.

I have poor nutritional status, so I get anemia, and passive smoking in break rooms also spurs headaches. The smokers are all people above, so I can't tell anyone, and blatant things such as covering my nose with a towel are disgusting, so I can't do it.
However, if you eat outside until lunchtime, you won't have any money.

As of now, the symptoms are about anemia, headache, nausea, numbness of the tongue, and fatigue, but they have not improved even after taking the medicine I received at the hospital. The pain is getting stronger.
I think it will really break my body if I keep going any longer than this.

If you don't work until you break your body as a member of society, will you retire due to indulgence?
Even if you list the symptoms in letters, they say, “That's all the same. It's just something that makes me want to say “everyone is having a hard time.”

Right now, there are places where other companies in the same industry say “you should come to my house,”
I thought about a lot of things, and as a result, my desire to change jobs there became stronger.
But I feel like my reason for leaving was just running away, and it's a bitter feeling that's hard to express in any way.

8 Zen Responses

It's not an “run away,” but “turn right.” Assault!” is

I looked at your concerns.

I don't think I'll continue my current job until I sacrifice my body and mind.
In order to survive the “era without things” after the war, current values are moving with the spare power that has chased economic growth up to this point with the logic that “if you say such a thing, you can't eat it.”

However, on the other hand, it is undeniable that child suicides, increased depression, environmental destruction, etc. are progressing year by year.

Isn't it time to improve the quality of life — the quality of life, as Bhutan is aiming for as a country?

We are not governed by values given to us by those around us or by common sense that we have been imbued with since we were little.

Shakyamuni told his disciples like this just before his death.

“Don't be afraid to be alone. Use yourself as a light, rely on yourself, walk alone like a rhino horn”

If you change your perspective a little bit, the world looks completely different.

I hope they will never “run away,” but that they will “turn right” and be carried forward along the path of life.

Remains of the lifelong employment system

The fact that you work for one company all the time in Japan
It tends to be regarded as a virtue.
In the West, people go to various workplaces to improve their skills
It is considered good.
I don't think I'll even stay at that workplace until I get sick.
Recently, I also hear the term black company a lot.
I don't know if LIMI's workplace is like that,
Why don't you overdo it like this and destroy your body or become depressed
There's no point in working.
It's not bad to work for the same company all the time,
Isn't it time to take the plunge and flap your wings outside?
There is no need for a valid reason to leave the company.
Your body and mind are already screaming.
The world is big. You are free.
Let's make decisions from a broader perspective.

Even if you don't think about a reason why everyone is satisfied, you can explain it to the company

It's tough to keep feeling unwell. The reason why medications prescribed at hospitals don't work is probably because the workplace environment is the cause. For women in particular, when their hormonal balance is out of balance due to stress, it becomes a very difficult treatment (I had the same thing before, so I understand it very well). If you are not freed from your current environment, it will become even more of a burden on your body. I'm worried.

Wouldn't it be good to retire for personal reasons or to concentrate on treatment due to poor physical condition?
Even if you don't think about a reason that will convince everyone, you can explain it to the company side.

Please don't overdo it and get well soon (*^^*)

Dear LIMI...

You don't need any reason to leave the company.
If you're not feeling well yourself, there's no need to hesitate.
your body is important, so...

What's more, if you've been invited by someone else, even more so.
Let's quit right away without thinking that it's bad for reasons, etc., and go ahead and turn our minds around.

“At the end of the day”

LIMI

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is a humble answer to the question.

Until now, we have been able to respond to work-related concerns by treating each “relationship” as shown below. Also, I think that the details of each response will also be helpful.

Question “Work at a company”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/175
Question “A Life of Bankruptcy and Restructuring”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/152
Question “I don't feel like work is fun”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/155

I think LIMI this time is also at a major crossroads depending on the “relationship.”

I think the reason for retirement... “personal circumstances” is fine.

However, even if you do retire, it is important to “keep the standing bird's footprints cloudy” and have a smooth retirement as much as possible.

Retirement greetings and arrangements for handover are one of them. Therefore, it is necessary to set a break and start, and then comfortably move on to the next workplace. That's because I don't know what connections with my previous company or colleagues would be positive for me in the future.

“Withdrawal”... this is a difficult thing no matter what. It is essential to be able to link the situation to one's own development and growth. The timing of the exit is important to do it at a stage where there is no need to worry about follow-up and the next outlook is in sight, and this time, there are also referrals to places to change jobs, and my feelings are already suited to that, so I think it's a really good timing.

Also, don't let the “exit” “end” or “stop” there. It's also important to see it as an opportunity for the next one and use it as an opportunity to change yourself. Think about whether it is your current company, surroundings, or yourself that must be changed, and if you say change to a company, you must work hard until you become an executive and be able to change positions, work with a labor union to improve labor relationships, or appeal to the Labor Standards Inspection Office. If that is not possible, it is hoped that they will make an effort so that they can positively change who they are now. This recent job change is probably one of those “ties.”

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

If I were to change jobs anyway...

 Let me just say one thing. Even if you quit, this company won't change. Other than that, you're probably not the only one who has trouble passive smoking during breaks. Start a movement to set up smoking areas with like-minded people, or start a movement to set up non-smoking rooms. Just do it, if it doesn't work. All you have to do is submit your resignation letter to the company and change jobs.
I don't do things like “Noah's Ark” where only I can be saved. I've heard this story since I was young, and I made up my mind to never ride Noah's Ark even when it came. (a little exaggerated?) Even myself would be good. I think I disobey the Buddha's teachings that only I can save myself. “Harmonize like milk water.” Because it's contrary to the “jungle” and “friend trip”...

my own life. Be honest with yourself. Take care of yourself.

You are the only one who can protect yourself.
My uncle was harassed by the company right before retirement.
“Please be early tomorrow”
“Please be late tomorrow”
“Please be early again tomorrow”
Meanwhile, my uncle slammed me on my resignation letter.
That was the company's aim. If I submitted my own resignation letter, the company wouldn't have to pay retirement benefits, so I upset my uncle's rhythm of life and made him angry, and I was waiting for him to issue my resignation letter.
My uncle died of cancer at 61.

As I heard just yesterday, my friend worked as a complaint handling clerk at Docomo, but now she is still in her 30s and has lung cancer. In response to the Claimer's request, the upper management of the company did not agree with it. It seems that there was a lot of suffering because they were caught in between. It seems that the metastasis has progressed and surgery is impossible.
The parents and family couldn't hide their shock. I was shocked too.
If you continue to overdo it like that, it will make those who think about you sad.
The family's shock is huge. It makes everyone feel gloomy. It's a way of life where you damage yourself. Health is our greatest treasure. I think they should have the courage to choose the path of resigning and choose a workplace where they can work with peace of mind.

The body is important

To LIMI

I don't think it's easy as a reason to retire.
The body is capital.
Also, thankfully, there are voices from other companies.

What do you want me to explain to myself once again
What happened to me now, and what do I want to do in the future
Aren't you running away

I would like them to move forward with the answers that came up to that question. Gassho