About the Women's Imperial Family

As for the emperor system, it is a tradition that has continued for many years, so if there is a way to keep it from being interrupted, I think it is better not to stop it.
I've heard on TV shows before that children's motor skills are inherited from their mother.
If there are women with excellent motor skills, it means that women are good in order to pass on those motor skills to the last generation.
I'm not sure if there are any important attributes as an emperor in the genetic information that can only be transmitted by male lineages.
However, when you think that the same chromosomes as emperors in the Heian period are definitely transmitted, it's somehow mysterious and romantic.
So, I agree with the male emperor.
However, since concubines (polygamy) are difficult in modern Japan, it may be difficult to maintain male lineage, so if it is really unavoidable, I think it is unavoidable to become a female emperor.
Regarding the advancement of women into society, I think it is true that it has led to a declining birthrate problem, but other than that, I don't think there are any disadvantages.
With the development of science and technology, in an age where robots can cover labor shortages, there is no need to give birth to many children, so I expect that there will be no disadvantages for humanity even if women work.
In Buddhism, anger and the anguish of pride are thought to be the cause of worry and suffering.
There's no denying your values, but be aware that the obsession (pride) and anger associated with them will lead to your own stress.

Did you push through your own opinions until your wife was mentally driven into it?

Your wife must be in quite a bit of pain right now.
Even though I was cornered until I was hospitalized, “I'm sorry.” It's not like saying “I'm sorry,” is it?

If you, your husband, don't support you when your wife is having a hard time before you know which one is right, your wife's heart will be all alone.

You've always been lonely, haven't you?
Aren't you having a lot of pain because your loved one treats you as a hindrance to society?

Once a divorce is finalized and your wife has to work, ironically, another society where women you don't want work will be born.
It's very disappointing.

I've heard that women are more attentive than men.
Considering the difficulty of raising children, I think that woman's ability is an excellent ability that can be demonstrated at home.

When I think about children first, I think it's better for women to join a family if it's something I can do.

There are times when women cannot work for reasons such as after giving birth or raising children.
I also think it's a man's role to cover that.

If that is difficult, the couple should discuss it and support each other in a different way.

However, what I want to say is that housework and childcare for women are not that easy.
Working hours are not 9 to 5 o'clock.
It's open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
I hardly spend my time alone.
Even if I try that hard, I hardly get any praise.
It's not going to pay off, is it?
Well, it's natural for your mind and body to get tired.

I think men are the ones who support women at such times. Isn't it a man's role to relieve them so they don't get too stressed?

If you're reading the story now, aren't you trying to further hold down your wife during a difficult time both mentally and physically?
I think the barometer of a child's happiness is a mother's smile.

Perhaps it is the husband's role to protect that smile. I also think so.
Why don't you first wrap your wife up so she can smile?

Hello Okuta.

I also respect your opinion that a male-dominated society is more important. There are still more male-dominated societies in the world. I think the human rights of men and women are the same, but I think that the roles of men and women differ depending on the country, ethnicity, religion, and society.

If the dominant position of men you are referring to is good for Japanese society, then Japan is a democratic country, so all you have to do is gather comrades like you, bring in politicians, and change the law. It won't be a solution even if you throw out your right arguments against a Hasunoha monk who doesn't understand who has no authority under the law.

By all means, they are going to do a political campaign against society. That is the shortcut to expanding the values you are aiming for. There is no choice but to decide whether or not to utilize your values in society by a majority vote of the people. We are all equally entitled to one vote. If you understand and gather the same values as yours, you can bring out many politicians to change the law. It's the only way.

If you can't do that, then it's just that you're lacking in power, and even if your values are true, you're not fit for democracy. So I don't think it's pointless to give opinions to one of the few Hasunoha boys. This is a place to ask the boy's opinion, not yours, so I think it's out of place. Please spread your opinions more in society and gather comrades.

As Okuta said, it would be better to divorce my wife as soon as possible. If you can't live with your wife because your thoughts are different, I think it's better to break up. I think that's the way to make both you and your wife happy. If your wife is worried because she doesn't understand you, I want to help her. Why don't you let me know your wife's real name and an opportunity to meet at the hospital? I'd like to give you advice to go directly and break up with you and move on with a new life.

Thank you for your support. Gassho

FYI.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cSmo577eCOw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CbcEN6eYWpo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwusu11aXhc

Your opinions and your own thoughts are probably important, so
I think it's fine as is.

These are my thoughts.
The emperor is a symbol of transcending gender.
There is no need to be limited to men and women one by one.

Now, having received answers to the questions so far,
It seems that you are dissatisfied with that,

To be honest, it means that she's feminine.

Were you asked the question because you wanted to stay in such a place?

Isn't the real suffering somewhere else?

Hasunoha is not a place for discussion.

If I wanted to do that, if 2-chan and I went to a certain wisdom bag
I think it's good.

It's a place where you can be close to your suffering.

Your problem is probably something deeper and something else.

I'd like to hear that.

whoa whoa whoa.

I have a request for you.
It's something only you can do. that is.
I want you to introduce this hasunoha to my wife. Say something like “I've used it too, though.”
At any rate, I feel like she has a difficult life ahead of her. You seem to have your own beliefs, work, and friends so far, and you also have connections with the boy. But she probably lacks a lot, right?
If there's anything I can do to help your wife, I'd like to do something useful, even if I'm offering it. so.
Please introduce this site to your wife.
And you yourself too. If you encounter something that you cannot solve on your own, such as the first question “I don't understand my wife,” please ask again.

Anyway, it is only with each other's consideration, care, and mutual support, help, and complementarity that we can somehow finally exist.

It's the same between men and women. Without uniformly and uniformly determining that this is correct, I would like to adjust what we can do, and what we should do in order to live a better and happier life with each other while acknowledging values and diversity.

Of course, we respect individual ideas and beliefs as ideals and beliefs.

I respect them, but I would also appreciate it if you could respect the content of each of our answers, listen even a little bit, and keep it in a corner of your heart.

Instead of making claims by thinking that they are right or infallible, I hope they can once again discuss what we want to be for each other, for our children, and for the happiness of our families.

The following is just for reference in order for the two to be on good terms...

Wedding Song (Mr. Hiroshi Yoshino)

In order for two people to be in harmony
It's better to be stupid
It's better not to be too splendid
Things that are too admirable
If it doesn't last long
It's better to be aware

It's better not to aim for perfection
I think perfection is unnatural
It's better to lie
Which of the two
It's better to be kidding
It's better to keep going

even if they blame each other
Did I have the right to be blamed
It's better to be suspicious later

When to say the right thing
It's better to make it a little less
When to say the right thing
If it's something that hurts your opponent easily
It's better to be aware

Like wanting to be splendid
Like I want to be right
For unreasonable tension
Don't use color
Relax and unwind
It's better to be bathed in light

While being healthy and blown away by the wind
To the nostalgia of being alive
My heart suddenly gets hot
Is it OK to have a day like that

and
Why do we get hot in the chest
Even if you keep silent
I want the two of them to understand

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

Good evening. I read your question.

Thank you for reading it with the honorific title Monk.
There is also a part where I think it's better not to hold it if you think it bends after being hit a little bit.
My point is unwavering. I think that attitude is important.

However, the more I read the questions, the more I felt knocked down.
The man's words must be hitting on the woman, but the feeling of being slapped intensifies for me.

When I wonder why...
If you stick to that, you can only maintain the upper position when one of them is below.
It's not an absolute position where you can gain an advantage over anyone even if you don't disparage anything
The sadness of being able to live only in a relative position where you can't maintain your upper rank if you don't look down becomes pitiful.

Even though I am a monk, I have a mother and a wife.
I haven't had a fight with my sister since I was little.
I have a big stomach, but I can't give birth to children who will live in the next generation.
I can't even imagine the pain of having a child.
It's a fact that no matter how I arrange my words at the beginning of my mouth, the fact that I came out through a woman's body remains the same.
Men get stronger because they definitely don't match.
However, there is also one aspect where social balance is achieved by being strong.

Everyone has their own opinions, and it's fine, but when I hear words that look down on women, I feel more miserable than feeling a sense of superiority.

It's not limited to Okuta and me; after all, seeds cannot be preserved without men and women.
The man is superior. Every time I hear a story about women being superior, I think of a Buddhist anecdote called Kyomeitori and I feel beaten down.

There are now ideas that women are prohibited in the world of temples, and that men should take over as chief priests.
However, I don't think Buddhism is originally in a position to argue about men or women.
There is a gender difference between male and female gods appearing in Greek mythology and the Nihonshoki, but I don't feel like I've heard of male Buddha or female Buddha.
If you go back to the origins of the Imperial Family and the Imperial Family, I think Shinto is more closely related to Buddhism.

There are times when I talk about my personal impressions from information obtained on TV, news, etc., but when asked for a sign called a monk, there are parts where I cannot answer because it is unprofessional.
There is also such a background, and there may be few responses relating to the Miyake family.
I hope you can forgive me for that.

If we trace back to the origin of the emperor, the origin of humanity seems to be in Africa, so I think he is the same as us.
So I don't think it's necessary to be particular about genes.
The Buddha said that a person's value is determined not by birth or status, but by actions.
I respect the emperor in Heisei.
This is not due to genes, but because his actions as an emperor so far have been respected.

If you really stick to your genes, I think you should always respect the Heisei emperor from now on.
Just like I still respect Buddha and Honen Shonin who are no longer in this world.