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Please help..

They are disliked by everyone in their families, and they have been subjected to violence such as being told to disappear, die, etc., and being slapped in the face by their parents.

I told my friend once.

I'm always laughing, so seriously I said I'm going to die.

Then, oh well, what if I die? I was told.

My friends also ignore me when I talk to them.

It's hard being able to run away to someone you like even though they haven't done anything.

But I can't talk to anyone..

I want to die.
I want to disappear.
I want to leave this world.

At least I want to die and make everyone happy.

And in the end, I always end up crying alone.

What should I do?

4 Zen Responses

Let's be friends.

Hello Marina.

Let's be friends with me. I'm an old man (laughs), but don't you feel brave when you have monk friends? Emails and phone calls are written in the introduction, so please feel free to contact me anytime.

Do you get hit on by your parents too? It's painful.
If you just can't stand it, you can run away for a bit.
It's also hard not being understood by your friends. Your friend is still a kid, so maybe they don't understand your circumstances. If you have a hard time talking, please call me anytime. I'm working until 5 o'clock today, but I'm fine anytime at night. I'm probably a monk, but I love reading comics (laughs).

There are only people who don't understand you, but there are also many people in the world who understand you. It also goes well with your prefecture, so it's possible to meet them. It may be painful, but happiness always comes.

Let's work hard together! Gassho

The monk is on your side!

I'll be friends too~ (^o^)

Did something happen to your parents or friends?
It's strange that those of you who are energetic and often talk and smile are said that far (*_*;

Or maybe they just can't laugh in their heart...?

If anything happens, please let me know.
there's nothing to hold back.

“It's very difficult to be loved by everyone or disliked by everyone.”
This is how the world works.
People who don't like you stand out right now,
Most of them are in a neutral position,
There are always people who care about you.

The monks are all on your side!

Please come here anytime

I read it.
Yes. Master Somekawa and Master Nikken are right.
Let's make friends with all of you!
It's old... but “all my friend's friends are friends.”
I'm a friend, so please let me know what you think.
Please share your thoughts here or in another form from now on.

You're not alone; you're connected as friends.
That's why you're so important.

Please continue to cherish this relationship as it is.
I sincerely pray that you will be healthy every day from now on.
Please come back here anytime!
We're always waiting for you!

That is abuse

You are being abused by your family.
If you're under 18, you're child abuse.
Please consult with child counseling centers, etc.

Among those who have been abused, there are people with little sense of self-affirmation that they think they have no value.

It is an “illusion” and “misunderstanding” that people have assumed due to abuse.

If you don't use the rationale of “I'm being abused because I have no value,” you may think so because you won't be convinced.
However, the facts are different.
It's not because you have no value,
It's simply that your family members are stupid (less capable) and bad people.
For example, if your family and parents are geniuses like the Buddha, they will take care of you with a smile without getting angry, no matter how difficult the child is.
However, when the parent's ability is low, they are unable to take care of the child in a cool way (their abilities are poor), so the parents themselves are panicked, upset, and angry.
Do you understand?
People who get angry and commit violence are stupid, so their ability to process their head and mind can't keep up, and they panic.
You're panicking not because you're worthless, just because your family is stupid.
Please consult with a proper third party.
If necessary, they may be able to protect themselves and hide in a safe place.
Maybe it's a good idea to get away from your family.