hasunoha

It's so sweet to me that nothing lasts

I started a new part-time job in August, but I quit at the end of August. The reason is
・It's challenging and unmotivated
・Senpai is not good at part-time work
・It's annoying that the way I work is done is so precise that it's pointed out in detail.
・The job according to the manual doesn't fit
I feel like I said that.

I think it would be sweet for me to quit because of this. Even when I quit, the store manager scolded me for “working responsibly.”
Furthermore, when I went to get my salary at a later date, transportation expenses were not included, and when I went to get it again, I was horrified by releasing transportation expenses saying “I'm also paying for my uniform, so don't be kidding around, you bastard.”
I stopped after 1 month, causing trouble, and being scolded and naturally remorseful.

However, when I told my friends about this, they said they would pay for uniforms and transportation expenses first, so it's natural! Why do you say it that way!?” and made me angry (; _;)

I'm very happy that my friend said it to me, but does this idea make room for me? I don't want you to decide which one is bad, but I'm curious about what you think. Please let us know what you think.

Also, until now, my lessons and club activities haven't continued for a long time, and I don't have the ability to continue. Furthermore, I have no patience or patience. As soon as I feel that it's not fun or painful, I stop.

It's scary to think that even if I start my next part-time job, I might quit right away... I don't feel like working, and it's scary to think that it might cause trouble again. I completely lost confidence in myself, probably because I was scolded.

I don't feel like working, but I need money, so I want to work. How can I take the next step?

4 Zen Responses

You can get money because it's not fun, you can steal professional tricks

If it's fun, I want to do it even if I pay money.
A part-time job, on the contrary, is a job where you get paid, and the value of getting money arises precisely because you do things that aren't fun or painful.
Please think “I'm doing something worth getting money for” only when there are things that aren't fun or painful.
Work doesn't have to be fun or hard.
You can find fun in your leisure time outside of work.
Of course, there are times when you can enjoy working with your co-workers and your boss, but in order to do that, you need to be friends who will continue to be loved for a long time.
If you overcome difficult times and continue, there is a possibility that you will be able to relax and enjoy your work.
There are also sceneries that only those who keep going on can't see, and there are positions you can't reach until you keep going for a long time, so please look forward to that and take on the challenge.
Part-time experience can also be useful for future employment and housework.
It's fine to be fictional, so it's also good to imagine your own dreams.
For example, when you work part-time at a restaurant, it is interesting to work with the intention of stealing various know-how from your part-time job, assuming that you will open your own restaurant and become the president in the future.
By the way, I have the chance to see professional work every day.

Takahashi Korekiyo and Sakai Yuya Daianri too

Wouldn't it be nice if you could gain a lot of experience? You don't have to worry so much.

There are many people who continued to lick hardships until they established a firm position, such as Sakai Yuya Daianari in the monk world, and Takahashi Korekiyo among great people in history.

If there wasn't even a big, fatal mistake, that was until people said, “Stop it.” It may be necessary to take it seriously, but there are times when results don't come up for everyone. Even if it doesn't work as a result, the experience will remain, isn't it?

Buddhism explains cause and effect (the idea that there is a cause and effect), but it does not only explain cause and effect. I also have another connection, so I don't think I can say that good results will always come out because I worked hard and because I have abilities (the opposite is also true. (If peony mochi has edges, it will fall off the shelf).

Since results are inevitably influenced by an incidental condition called marriage, there are places in Buddhism that don't ask much about results. So what's important is motivation. It's not about what you did, but what you tried to do. If I had done this part well, the day would surely come when I thought it would have been good. If it doesn't work out until then, make an effort.

I'm going to say tough things. Read it when you can

I was a retail store with 100 clerks, and I was the leader of a processing plant with 20 people. I write it from a point of view close to the store manager.

Do I really need money in the first place? People who can't pay rent without a part-time job, can't pay tuition fees, or can't eat can't quit easily for that reason. Even if I quit, even if it takes time and effort to find my next job, I'll put up with it until I have enough savings to eat up to a certain extent. I can't continue because my perception of income is poor, and I can't put up with my seniors. There aren't many people in the world who work while thinking, “Oh, it's fun, it's fun.” Everyone has their own reasons for putting up with it. You don't have a reason for that, or maybe you haven't taken it seriously?

There is a term called personnel productivity. It's a numerical value of how much sales are produced per person at work, but the personnel productivity of newcomers who haven't finished their training period isn't even 0 yen. It's negative. Uniforms cost around 10,000 yen per uniform, labor costs and administrative expenses for interview and recruitment procedures are incurred, and the productivity of seniors involved in training is also less than half. If you add wages to that, your workplace is running a deficit of hundreds of thousands of yen just because you quit in less than a month, right? If 10 people like that gather, most stores will collapse. You said, “It's causing trouble, too,” but do you know that you've caused this much trouble? It's a different dimension from club activities and lessons, isn't it? Not paying transportation expenses is a breach of contract, but it is natural for the store manager to be outraged.

However, the reason I stumbled here is not because you are relaxed. That's because I'm a kid. Regardless of whether or not you actually quit, it means that recognition is poor, and it has always been a path that everyone has gone through. Then everyone gets scolded by someone, and they become adults.

The reason you need money doesn't have to be lofty. I had many reliable friends who worked hungry because they wanted money to play with. However, it's just “do we really need money?” Please take that point seriously. If it's really necessary, you can take the next step without being preached or treated kindly by anyone. You won't be able to help but take a step forward.

Don't do it because you're doing your own thing

You're just not working because you're completely in your own mode when you're at work.
Even though it's a workplace, even though it's an official place, I think they work as if they were in their own home.
This is called selfie mode and private mode.
You should switch to official mode at work.
Don't confuse public and private.
Asceticism is not to confuse public and private.
It's just that you haven't done living a perfect public life yet.
Good and bad things are born from my private point of view.
“Good and bad” “for myself” is born.
Please be the ultimate “Oyake Duke.”
Public is humming when read upside down.
If personal feelings are added to ham making, do it, cruel, murderous, sorry, and personal feelings intervene there, and it's not even close to making ham.
The feelings you feel are true.
However, it is precisely because you pour too much emotion into it that your private feelings can drag you back.
Aren't you “going to do your own thing”?
Doing what needs to be done there “publicly” is the path to becoming a pro.