If I get married in a temple, will I definitely live together?

　When we first got married, we were allowed to live together. So, looking back now, I think it was a period of time when I clearly understood that “I'm not my boyfriend/girlfriend.” In other words, they were arguing and being nervous quite a bit. When we were in a relationship, we blatantly had time to spend time separately with “well, goodbye,” but when that was gone and we were together all the time, we both said, “Eh! That's the kind of person he was!” It's also a time when the veil comes off.
It's different from working for a company, so I think we basically spend a lot of time together (now, I also hear that temple wives work outside). I think the time to properly identify your partner is important.
Also, I think you should decide “when to enter the temple” beforehand. I don't think it's good if they say “someday...” it means we can't prepare for each other. As far as I feel, “after a relationship is established” is highly discouraged. It's too abstract.
So, I think it's important to share both positive reasons. What has Aozora's family been like until now? Does your dad work for a company? Are you self-employed or a farmer? I think bridging the gap from that environment is important in the long run.

The temple they will eventually live in is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, so I think it's okay to have a period where only young couples can spend time freely for a while.

It's fine if you live together and don't have any problems, but in many cases, when other people with different ways of living live together, it's stressful.
In particular, the wife's position is likely to be often pressured.
He, who can become a husband, may also have a strong idea that it should be like this, but I recommend creating an environment where you can spend time as a couple with peace of mind without being bound by the words “must” or “it is better to do it.”

First, when it comes to a temple, when it comes to companies, the president is the chief priest.
Dealing with parishioners and doing the main work is also amazing.
It's also amazing to teach wakes, funerals, and memorial services.
Joo-shoku, how old are you? NO. It's not there.
Therefore, Joo-Shok will forever be President Forever. The whole time, Joo-shook, the eternal chief priest.
Deputy chief priests usually don't come into play when they're in a tight age, and the main thing they do is joo-shoku. Tosaka is chicken with its beak pulled out.
What's more, for the most part, the mentor and Ka-chan are nice and obedient.
Your boyfriend seems to be like that.
Until Joo-shook retires, he was a deputy chief priest and always subservient.
Yome, who is in a submissive position, is even weaker.
Depending on the human nature of Ju-shoku and the Joo-sho Wife who got married, the wife is also a submissive forever. Oh My Gar (← conversion)
Therefore, it is better not to live together.
There are many people I know who live together and are divorced.
Don't worry about worrying about the eyes of the parishioners.
I'm just frightened by my own thought that the parishioners might think this way.
Nobody cares about that.
Everyone does their best to take care of themselves.
Normally, husbands don't fully understand the feelings of wives who have to ride alone.
Worst of all, even if you live together, it's absolutely a requirement that you have your own private room, a private room, a private room, a private room just for you.
Build a cellar. Have them make the room completely soundproofed.
Ask them to create a barrier where Shootme can't enter.
Ask them to build a door anywhere you can go back to your parents' house right away.
If you live together, you won't be able to eat what everyone wants to eat, and every day is stressful due to the balance caused by the age difference. There are many cases where Dokyo leads to divorce even in foreign countries.