Why does attitude grow when you become a veteran at work?

When you experience a certain number of years at work and become like a veteran, forget the feeling you had when you were a rookie

Why is it that their attitude is so arrogant that they feel as if they know everything from the beginning and can do it?
It's no wonder.

Even professional people first became professionals while being taught as amateurs.
If that's the case, wouldn't it be better to kindly and politely tell them that it's better to do this here?
That's no good at all, and if you say amateurs, the number of new hires won't grow, right?

4 Zen Responses

People have such a hidden heart (arrogance). It's something I want to be careful about

Really, that's right.
Are there people like that around you too?

Even if you can do a job, you don't necessarily have to be a person with personality
Everyone is moving away from people who say they can't keep up even if they can do their job.
People have that kind of heart (arrogance) behind them. It's something I want to be careful about.

I wonder if it's an ear of rice that makes you bow your head the more it bears fruit

I read it.
There are people who exaggerate by putting it on their noses when they can really do it a little bit.
Pride comes out of nowhere, doesn't it? That person's true nature comes out.
If you're not really careful, you'll get tat it later.
If that happens again, we will lose sight of the things and relationships with people that are really important.

People and professionals who can really do it are always humble. They are strict with themselves and kind to others.
That's why I think he's a pro.

Maybe it's an ear of rice that makes you bow your head the more it bears fruit.

People who are really capable and rich never lose their humble attitude by bowing their heads no matter what.

I want to be like that.

I sincerely pray that your life will be rich in heart and that every day will be fulfilling with all of you.

Being bossy is probably because it's “fun”

Humans have the affliction of greed.
It makes me want to do fun and interesting things, even if it's bad.
Also, humans are worried about pride.
I want to think of myself as a wonderful person, an excellent person, and I want others to think so.
Therefore, I have a desire to act in a bossy manner against juniors who are inferior to me, and I want to enjoy such words and actions.
The point is, for them, it's entertainment.

You're being carried away by their amusement.
I think kindness is necessary when dealing with them.

Have it at all

You're right.

After all, it's probably because it gives me confidence. Then, their confidence becomes overconfidence, and they probably forget what they have struggled with. Let's just say you get used to it in a bad way.

So, by all means, Watanabe-sama, please don't let that happen even if you become a veteran.

Everyone does that, so neither do I. Everyone does that, but I'll be careful! That's the spirit.

Even if you understand the reason for “why do attitudes grow,” it probably won't fix that veteran's big attitude. And that doesn't mean we can forgive big attitudes, right?

Then I just try not to let that happen to me.

I know but I can't stop... there are places like that in humans. There is a difference between what you can understand with your head and whether or not you can put it into practice firsthand.
Maybe Watanabe-sama's attitude changes depending on the veteran's attitude when receiving guidance from that veteran.
Not only does it “understand” that this person is overconfident, but by receiving bluntly guidance, “This person overtrusts himself, so I'll let you do that,” they may be able to forgive (understand) veterans saying “it can't be helped,” and veterans may also change their attitude that it's not interesting without rebellion... No, I don't know.

Anyway, it's like pretending to be a person or something.

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