My husband is a monk

Probably, but if you're someone who got married from a large temple, I think you're treated completely differently. In the world of temples, this is at least the case in the Shinshu family, where a hereditary system has been established. The “bride who came from home” situation you are in is absolutely constant in the brains of your parents-in-law and husband. I know it is difficult to understand that people are determined by family status, but this is the case for those people. Otherwise, there is absolutely no way that pregnant women can carry 24 cans of 500mel beer (so I don't think that you matter). However, I don't think anything else is that bad. There are many things that come to mind for me too.

The point is, I think, how much you can accept that you have innate defects such as those described above. Maybe it's good to be accepted as “My Danna is this kind of person.”

So I think you're a precious person. It looks like a Buddha. Please spit out poison to your heart's content here and treat children and parishioners with a smile.

Nice to meet you.

We monks tend to be worshiped by the general public, so unless it's our son-in-law, there are probably a lot of people with kanpaku in the household.

Even so, I feel like I can still understand if I don't take out the trash, but a 500ml box would be heavy on the stairs.

In the past, it was often said that pregnancy was not a disease, but times are different now.
Temples also play an important role in preserving traditions, but in parallel with that, they tend to inherit strange times, so maybe the husband doesn't understand the pain of being pregnant.
At the same time, due to similar historical succession, there may still be a trend where men work outside and women protect their homes.
If that's the case, the wife will have to do everything from housework to taking care of her husband and children.

Why don't you have a proper conversation with your husband once?

The husband seems to be on his way to the temple from the housing complex.
As you can imagine, maybe your husband wants to forget that he is a monk when he gets home.

Furthermore, the husband must also know that this is the case in a normal home.

A family is something we build while respecting each other.
Just because it's a temple doesn't make any difference behind the scenes.

A warm family is born from small skirmishes with love.
Why don't you bump into your husband with the utmost affection?

Being pregnant is a very difficult thing.

Moreover, I heard from my doctor that it is a general rule not to carry anything heavy until the first 3 months.
My husband says he'll train, but that's misplaced.
Please take care of your own body for the sake of your baby.

Before the monk
As a person, I think it's natural to worry about the health of a pregnant wife,
If you were to be treated like a question,
Isn't that a problem for us as people?

I think monks... no, monks are a “way of life.”
What if they disdain things that come from outside in a special environment called a “temple”...
The monks themselves and the families of temple monks are like general occupations
If you're feeling it...
I think Buddhism probably has no future.

Recently, I got married in a big temple elsewhere
I heard a story about someone who had children and got divorced.
Even though it's a Zen temple, many years after getting married, children were born...
During that time, my husband never did zazen meditation,
I didn't want to be a monk, but I was just complaining that I couldn't help it...
That husband's father also only complained like that...

There are not only good monks in the world
I think there are people who have taken over the temple because they couldn't become monks.

I also think I'm being kind to my wife,
Maybe it's nothing but complacency...

What are Nanmu-sama's concerns this time
I would like to take it as my own.