Is being weak a bad thing?

I'm not strong either.

My heart immediately makes a noise, breaks, and I lose my motivation.

Wouldn't that be fine?

In such a case, please hold your lap and stop.

Please cry until your tears are gone.

That's fine.

I can do that because I'm alive now.

　Being weak is not a bad thing, but it's not that good if you keep dragging on what people say to you for a long time.

People say things to you for a variety of reasons. Some people are really friendly and give advice, but most of the time, they just pretend to be like that, and their opinions are selfish.

If you genuinely accept what people say who are jealous of you or make it convenient for the person who says it, you won't feel well.

Please feel the happiness of choosing things for yourself.
A weak heart is difficult to overcome right away, but people become stronger before they know it as they choose the choices in front of them one by one for themselves.

Nice to meet you. My name is Shima Daisei

My heart is broken as soon as someone says something to me.
Is being weak a bad thing? That's the question

I'll answer it. Not only is it not bad, it's normal. It's natural.

There is also a saying “being shy is a talent,” but...
What is the psychological tendency to feel uneasy, push in your own feelings, and retreat
It's nothing to be ashamed of.

The fact that psychological tendencies remain in us humans after 4.6 billion years of evolutionary history
because it was a trend favorable to survival

Had it not been for that psychological trend, our ancestors
I reached for the chestnuts in the fire because they were beautiful,
You probably brought strangely colored mushrooms to your mouth because they looked delicious

What should I do if I get burned. What should I do if it's poisonous.
Feeling anxious is necessary in order to live

So it's not shameful to be weak
You, me, and everyone have a bad heart.
It's not easy, but please get along well with that heart

Well, one more thing. “If others tell you it's impossible, you won't be motivated to do anything.”
This must be considered separately from the psychological tendencies described above.

The point is the reason “because someone said something”
What you started thinking was “right” for the reason “because someone stopped you”
It would be foolish to quit or change.
Besides, above all else, I haven't been able to value my intentions

... let me tell you a little bit about my family

There is a baseball lover in my family. No, there are baseball fanatics.
He likes watching rather than playing, so if he watches baseball on TV every day,
“Fuck you!” I'm happy to skip that point

I say that too much, so I was curious and said, “Well, you should play it”
When I say that, even though they complain harshly,
“If I play, I'll do better than the pros”
It's something you won't say back

When it comes to what I'm trying to say, in short, it's “the outfield is something you say bluntly.”
That's because there's no responsibility.

Let's say you change your mind when someone says something to you.
It's not anyone else who receives the results (or consequences), it's you
Ultimately, no one else is responsible

Please think about it carefully.
Is “I can see your future” really a responsible phrase?

It's not something that others can give answers about what will happen to Machosu-san in the future, and it's an unknown world even for yourself.
Your future will change drastically depending on what you do in the future.
Ultimately, it's up to you.

I'm very happy and disappointed by opinions from others, but that person is not a prophet.
If it were someone who could predict the future, Machosu-san would be able to predict exactly how bad things would go, and that person himself would have become a billionaire by prophecy.

well, just kidding around...

When you get negative feedback from people, it's natural to be shocked.
Shock is a natural emotion.
It's not a bad thing; rather, it's natural.

However, I would like people's opinions to be valued.
You probably received advice based on a sober judgment about the school you wanted to apply to.
There are mistakes in communicating, such as being completely dark at the beginning...

What I'm worried about is that it will open up again if I don't have to make an effort because I'm told that it's no good.
At first glance, this seems to make sense; in fact, it's just plain skipping.

If the school you want to apply to is really difficult, think about what to do next.
Isn't this the right time?

Choose and take personal advice from others.
Words like no good or don't be shocked aren't advice, they're just bad words.

When consulting, “I'm thinking about doing..., what do you think?” Please think carefully for yourself before asking the question.
“Can I pass the school of my choice?” or “What should I do?” If you ask dependent questions, etc., it will hinder your growth.

Machosu-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Actually, originally, the mind is neither “strong” nor “weak,” but it becomes “strong” or “weak” due to various causes and conditions (causes and conditions).

In other words, if you can adjust the cause and effect to be “strong,” even Machosu-sama will be able to make it stronger.

Anyway, as Ebihara Gakuyoshi also said, no matter what others say or what they think, in the end, deciding “what you want to be” is nothing other than yourself, and you have no choice but to rely on yourself.

The words and actions of others who are irresponsible, unloving, and unconsiderate can also be shared without concern.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho