I've been making all the wrong choices

Good evening.
I think the causes of loss are intertwined with various things, such as the environment, attitude, effort, and overthinking.
Or maybe they originally often chose places where the probability of winning was low.

As a person taught that suffering is not a bad thing, but a seed of enlightenment...
Until now, my life may have thought it was a lost lottery,
The possibility that it will turn positive instead of negative may not be zero...

What was missing that led to a loss lottery?
Is it still a lost lottery because they haven't been able to make up for anything?
If you understand the law of failure a bit, you might be able to know patterns to avoid it.

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It was fine until a certain stage, but is it going to be a lost lottery just by being stingy once?
Don't throw away the lost lottery right away; if you observe it, the probability of winning will increase.

I've never won a lottery that takes lives, even though it's just a lost lottery.
I think that was a good point.

You must have experienced so much frustration.
Thank you for your hard work.
But if you think you're lucky, everything seems lucky.
Despite making a lot of wrong choices, I'm pretty lucky because I'm living properly now.
If it's a wild animal, failure can lead to death.
If you lacked effort, you were probably doing something fun during your time when you weren't making an effort.
You've been able to enjoy a lot of trivial pleasures in your life, so why don't you think of it as a fulfilling life?
If you make an effort, you'll get results due to your effort, and if you don't make an effort, there will be something fun in return; either is fine.
The only thing one should strive for in Buddhism is Buddhist practice.
Other secular matters may be appropriate.
Please don't try too hard.

For example, let's say you bought fabric softener. Choose from many varieties. When I first bought it, I didn't really understand it, so I smelled the sample before buying it.
But when you try using it, huh? I wonder if that one was better? failed! Regrets begin in my head.
The fact is, the more it is there, the more it smells.
There are no hits or losses. You just decide with your thoughts.
A way of life without adding such thoughts is a way to live without loss. There's no going back to the past. Please take a close look at the present.

Originally, there are no losses.
Whichever way you fall, that's it. That's over there.
Rather than grieving over a loss, you should be happy with what you have now.
Humans make a series of choices.
It is said that they select about once every 2 seconds.
That's why I'm also making endless choices while typing sentences like this.
Well, what shall I say?
Oh, again, Kunimoto answered with himself.
(huh? (This is an answer I saw somewhere, right?)
Whoa, that's hard to answer, well, should I answer it or let someone else answer it?
For now, let's answer in a different style.
Ah, the rice is ready, should I eat it or should I do it later?
The floor is dirty, should I clean it, or should I do it later since my kids get dirty?
It's a series of endless choices.
Thinking that this was better or that was better is actually a choice.
Try saying this is good, this is fine, this is fine, and this is fine.
You can see that you're making a choice you regret.
It's choosing a negative choice and choosing the method of evaluation called cancellation.
There are even choices to think “this is good.”
There is also an option to evaluate “I failed, but it was a loss, but well, there is no choice but to do something about it.”
Depending on how you use scissors, choices, and clothespins, your life will change to a sharp one.
It wasn't the laundry that you made a mistake.
It's just that my mind is on the punch line because I chose the wrong evaluation.