Please tell me how to live without being bound by fortune telling results.
Good evening.
There's something I've been worried about for a long time, so let me talk to you.
I married my husband a year and a half ago. When I went to say hello to that marriage, my husband's grandmother asked me my date of birth and name, and it seems that the marriage between my husband and me was predicted by a fortune teller that my grandmother believed at a later date.
My grandmother was inclined to the fortune telling of the Four Pillars, and her life was determined by that. It seems that it was the fortune teller who named my husband when he was born.
The result is
My husband and I are the least compatible
I am destined to become ill and suffer and die for the rest of my life
They become unfaithful parents even if they have children
Anyway, my name and date of birth are the worst
It seems like that was the case, and they were told that it was better to break up and that it was better not to get married.
To be honest, I was surprised, and I thought my name was something precious that my parents thought up and gave me, so I was angry when they said such a thing all of a sudden.
After that, in the story between me and my husband, I don't believe in the Four Pillars of Fortune, so to my grandmother
The results may not be good in the Four Pillar Predictions, but I want to cherish the relationships I've met and complete them
We talked and got married.
My grandmother also comes to weddings and treats me normally.
However, I don't believe in fortune telling, but I was shocked that they kept being told that it was so bad, and I put something on it and thought, “Oh, my fate sucks, so this is what happened.”
(I'm not very strong mentally, so I've stayed away from fortune-telling until now so I wouldn't be brainwashed by being told bad things by fortune telling me)
In particular, my chronic illness worsened a while ago, and the surgery and infertility treatment were performed as a result, but it didn't go very well, and every time I did that, I remember my grandmother's story, and I feel like the words my grandmother said were stuck together like a curse, and it's really painful.
I meet my grandmother about once a month by sharing a meal, but recently I've become afraid of meeting my grandmother.
My husband and I both want children, but they aren't blessed because of my illness, and my husband's fortune telling results are good, so if I marry someone other than me, my husband will also be blessed with children, and I am filled with sorry feelings.
My husband cares about me. Because they are kind people, they tell me that they will live together even if they are not blessed with children. But it's painful to think that I might make my husband unhappy.
How can we positively accept these fortune telling results?
Also, is it possible not to worry about it?
