I think that's good too. Certainly, there are people who set lofty and far-fetched goals, but you have to understand that “they are ridiculous and less specific.” In other words, it's like “I've tried a lot of things, and when I notice it, I feel like I'm one step closer.”
“It feels similar to impatience,” and I think this awareness is very good, but I wonder if this is a state where “I want standards to prioritize things and judge choices”? I feel it.
So, “for now, what are the values I want to cherish for now?” Why don't you ask yourself and accumulate the answers?
Since ancient times in the Kokin Wakashu, we have thought that words are spun in response to what is in our hearts. The reason people pay so much attention from the many things that are reflected in their field of vision is that there are elements that respond to the mind.
If so, I think it's a good way to write down and accumulate your favorite words, book, and movie stories on memos. I myself write lazily on my smartphone's memo app. The cool thing about this is that “you don't have to narrow it down to one.”
But (what's more?) There are times when it becomes visible as the amount accumulates. If you don't write it down, you just forget it, but when you collect it, you notice a new dimension. When your “favorite stories and favorite ways of thinking” accumulate, one day a “situation close to that” will appear right in front of you. Then it's your chance to become your “favorite self.” Far from having goals, they are accomplishing them.
The above is one specific method, but there is something I would like to tell you in more general terms.
It's a song called Anpanman's March, and they say “I don't like not being able to answer what I was born for and what I do to live,” but even though it's a children's program, it's a teaching from a senior in life (the author is an old man). Goals are issues you should pursue even when you are 60, 70, or 80 years old. Also, I think it's good to change over the years.
There may also be people who have “lifelong goals.” However, what I recommend is a “goal for the time being.” I'll try it while thinking it's Karisome. When you achieve it, you'll definitely be fed up with something.
Oh yeah, as an addition, I'm sure there are people you can rely on for the “goals” you seek in stories and novels. It's not a TV, it's a book.