How can I talk to a monk I'm interested in... (After that.)

If it's a place where people are being trained at Motoyama,
You may be able to give various reasons like this one.
Also, it depends on what kind of person the receptionist is.
The receptionist is probably a senior monk who has been training for a long time
There are a lot of tough people.
The people involved in that temple, the entrants and exits,
I think using connections from temples etc. of the same denomination will work.
This is when I was in Motoyama,
And it's an opinion that I thought about from the current state after the training was over.
The situation might be different for different denominations, though.
If you can't say it from the front, why don't you change the angle a little bit?

　Basically, ascetic monks (monks) abide by the ban on women, so it's decided that even if you go to the reception desk from the front, you'll be turned down. I think the answers according to the manual came back.
If I had to say one word, why didn't you take my advice? Maybe there aren't any public participation events at this temple? I'm so sorry. Other than working in the morning, if there is an equinox memorial service nearby, why don't you attend one? There will probably also be a general reception. Almost all enrolled monks often participate in the annual event, so the opportunity is there. Check out the annual events that even the general public can participate in.
I'll say it again. “If you hurry, turn around”

Aluseus

I didn't think too much about it last time and said, “Please tell them that you want to talk frankly.” I'm sorry that I told you something like that, and the results made me feel sad.

As receptionists, there were various visitors, and there were also various ascetic monks, so they probably couldn't be smoothly arranged by the direct attack method like this one.

But as you said, I wasn't directly turned down by the person himself, so I don't think I need to give up here.
The monk you're interested in is said to be the Shingon sect, so for example, try searching for ways to approach it through a monk of the Shingon sect registered with Hasunoha, and it might be better to go human.

Good luck (2nd time).

That's impossible.
because if you don't even know your name...

At least, please ask where you would like to meet the person who was sitting during the Goma Prayer this time. It's not a fastball game, let's go with a hand throw. For example, because I want to make an offering to that person...

Also, http://fukagawafudou.gr.jp/index.html
Tomorrow (15th), a special large homage service will be held from 3 p.m. If I had the chance, I would be happy to participate.

In summary, the temple belongs to the Chizan school temple of the Shingon sect, and in this hasunoha, it is related to the temple of Suzuki Kojo Sojo at Onozan Fukukoen-ji Temple. I hope this will be a one-size-fits-all consultation.

The temple there sells omikuji, doesn't it?
That means there may also be a “love fulfillment” amulet.
If you buy an amulet and your love is fulfilled
That's because it's the ultimate benefit of this world...
Everyone has a different sense of accomplishment, but...
First, I have to look up the name.
If you finish training, they might be able to help you.
Now the law doesn't prohibit love between monks, so don't worry!
Just take it easy on yourself when it comes to stalking. Nice to meet you.

To Aluseus

In response to the previous question
Monks, get answers from everyone
I would like to commend you for your courage this time.

From here on, it's a relationship.
If you have a relationship with that person
There may be a chance for us to meet again.
Isn't it about what actions can be taken at that time?

If you try to use my name or talk about something, etc.
Your opinions have come up
I also have a feeling that it would be nice if it was something I could help
I would like to leave the future to the relationship between Aluseus and his monks. Gassho