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Should I talk about my past

Thank you very much for your continued support.
The other day, we talked about hearing about his past.

I also have a feeling that I want to talk about my past to him who told me because he didn't want to hide anything, but I don't have the courage.

Just as I don't understand his pain, I don't want him to understand my pain either.

However, I'm worried that they will accept my past.
Even if it's not accepted, I think it can't be helped, but I'm afraid of when that was the case.

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Live with anxiety

There is nothing but it. However, you can reduce your embarrassment. That's because you don't have to hide it.
So, if “I wanted to talk too,” then go. Rather, he seems to accept it, so maybe he's been in a relationship until now? is that wrong?
Well, that area oozes out from Osho-san's answers last time.

Last time, I just wrote “someone I can respect,” but that's not necessarily the case with him. I'm moved once, but I can't hold on to that emotion. That's the point.

Anyway, don't disdain (ignore) your child.

Not talking isn't a lie

I think not talking is one option, but if you feel like you're lying, you'd better talk.
I get jealous when I hear about things before we met, and I get frustrated because I'm swayed by that imagination.

If you can do it, I think it's okay to talk about it, but above all else, you probably want to talk. It's probably not refreshing.

Isn't the answer out? I don't know what the results will be, but the past is the past, and there is only the present on top of that. That's because it doesn't change who you are now.

Don't talk about anything, Yoi

“It's okay. I know it even if you don't say it. You know, if anyone lives, there are a lot of unreasonable things. “Don't you care?” Natate ('▽`*)
Hello. My name is Tange, a nice catcher and nice throw for any kind of ball. (Don't you accept it)
I think it's a good idea to carefully select and talk about only what you really want people to hear and accept.
Women in the world seem to be illustrated by the trend of wanting people to seek empathy for everything, and men are also told to seek empathy between girls, but men are troubled by solutions, so if there is no ❝ necessity ❞ of wanting to solve that problem, there is no need to talk about anything.
You don't need to talk about anything you don't want to talk about until you go out of your way to resolve and digest it in a way.
Talk in “Hey, I want you to listen...” and limit it to the extent that girls understand that women are something they want to sympathize with, and when it comes to talking about anything and everything, there are times when the relationship doesn't go well or not because of what you've talked about.
('▽`*) “I want to know everything about you. Please talk about anything ♡”
('DED') “... I wanted to be honest with you so I thought ♡ wouldn't you get mad...?”
(^. ^) “I'm not mad ♡ what?”
('') “Actually, I've had an affair 5 times until now and there are 14 other women.”
“(-"” -) "“Coco, kill!”
If both men and women are to live the truth, they should live with the reality of the present, not with each other's information.
“Things from the past” are not exactly “the reality of the present.”
No matter what happened to Maka, the real relationship between the two of them now is actually with each other.
That's because you guys are dating right now.
Speaking of whether we can be happy by talking about things from the past before we met and boasted about their misfortunes with each other, that is another matter.

You don't have to worry

The result of past accumulation is who I am now.
Since all of your past experiences are affecting your current words and actions,
Just by touching you now, he is already touching you in the past.
I'm talking without saying it.

Does he accept you as you are now?
If that's the case, he's already accepting all of your past.

You don't have to worry about anything.
Don't worry.