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I made a mistake I couldn't tell people

Let me refrain from describing the details of this mistake here.

And people around you will know about this mistake unless you confess it yourself
I don't think so, but what should I do if it becomes known at some point
When I think about it, I can't calm down mentally.

If you don't like hiding it, you might think you should take the plunge and confess,
If you confess, you lose social credibility, and furthermore, it is said that you only need to confess to a specific person
It's nothing, so it's a situation where we have no choice but to hide it after all.

It's painful to carry on this mistake that must be hidden from now on.
I would like to ask for advice on what kind of attitude we should take in our lives.

4 Zen Responses

Take care of your own trust over social credit...

Tomato-san.
I think it's painful to have so many worries.

But if you say you're worried and being asked questions here, isn't your true feeling that you want to be honest?
It may also be possible to conceal it in order to protect public trust.
... But wouldn't that betray your true feelings?

By confessing honestly, you may lose social credibility and be looked down upon by people.
But if hiding it makes you not trust yourself and you have to despise yourself, isn't that really painful for your life?

How do you want to be... why don't you face your own heart once again and think about it?

Well, I'm waiting

Good evening. It's already quite late, but...
Maybe, “The nuclear power plant is almost here (P). “I did it” or something like that?
Well, I also have a feeling that bugs are good for such people to gain social trust (there are a lot of them, I'm sure).
For the most part, it's an anonymous question, so no matter how far you go, you “don't know if it's true or not”, right? So, our stance is, “Maybe it's a made-up story, but if it were true, I'd like to say it like this” (probably).

Anyway, please take a look at how the monks here answer each question. In response to those who have asked questions, what kind of perspective they are looking at it from and how they are handling it.
Look at that figure and write what you thought, “Let's say this.”
However, make sure not to cause inconvenience to the operation.

Also, aren't there places in Christian churches where you can do “repentance” rather than “sanka”?

What has been done is irretrievable

In order to truly purify within you, what can you do for those who have suffered actual harm from it?
What has been done is irretrievable, but I think it is something that can be done to some extent for those who have suffered damage.
I think the state you're in is also a state where you don't like yourself.
Why do we feel depressed or depressed?
I feel like I'm not afraid of that because they lose social credibility if they find out.
I think you feel self-contradicted by the fact that you are not acting sincerely as a human being.
Actually, I think it's probably because they haven't corrected what they should have done.
Please don't take the plunge and really face it.
Just make sure you don't lose your honesty with yourself.
As it is, you are selling your soul to the devil, so please confess and repent to someone in order to get yourself back.

It's about forgetting.

If you're about to be crushed by anxiety
It's about working.
What if it becomes difficult to live with regrets
It's about working.
That is redemption.

“Work, work, get through work. That is my redemption.”