Or maybe, you have an unusual hobby (^<^) I think that's great.
I never thought about it that way, probably because I visited graves all the time and got used to seeing them.
You might think it doesn't have much to do with this story,
There are things I recommend when visiting graves.
Whether it's a tomb or a pagoda, what should be built and erected there is not simply a memorial stone pagoda, wooden board, and incense stick, but it also “builds (emits) the heart of Bodhi.”
In other words, humans see tombstones only as stones, only as memorial monuments, and only to the extent of so-called graves.
However, in the first place, tombstones and stupas related to temples “should” be prayed along with the Bodhi's vow to leave the Three Evils (greed, anger, and ignorance) for a long time and fulfill the same heart as the Buddha by praying at that pagoda even after the Buddha passed away.
My friend, Osho, went to a sacred place in India to visit graves, and we only talked about sightseeing.
If you don't have a Buddha heart, Bodhi heart, or a prayer heart, it means that visiting graves should be done while sightseeing under the management of an unreligious cemetery.
So what is a sense of religion? Along with the feeling of loving the deceased, those of us who are alive inspire over and over again a way of life away from hesitation and suffering. We should stir up Bodhi's heart a million times, one million times, and make a heart of vow while holding hands to “fulfill enlightenment.”
I don't mean to say anything too bad, but no matter whose grave you pray to, it's all your own. Keep this thing in one corner of your chest. (^mu^) Let's fulfill Bodhi while we are alive.
When visiting people's graves
While thinking about myself at some point
While I'm still alive
Strengthen the heart to hope for enlightenment