It's better to put it down for kids

I read your question.
I think you are currently in a situation where you cannot make a calm judgment due to the early stages of pregnancy and a period of mental instability.
First, what does it mean to have children in today's world. In Japan today, there are many people suffering from infertility and receiving infertility treatment. You must be very lucky to have a child under such circumstances.
Next, what does it mean to corrupt a child? There are pros and cons to this. No matter what people say, in the end, parents are the ones who raise them. If parents are immature, abuse may occur, and in the worst case, it may even cause the child to die. However, mental maturity does not come with age. There are people who have matured excellently at age 20, and there are also people who remain immature at age 30 or 40.
There is also an aspect where parents can be made to grow by children. I also have a 3-year-old daughter, and I feel every day that my daughter is taking care of me as a parent.
And the last thing I want you to understand is
If you fall for a child this time, and even if one day you get married and have children in a way that everyone blesses you, a dark shadow will surely cast a dark shadow on your heart.
He is also responsible for this incident, but those of you who became pregnant under these circumstances are also responsible.
We can't say that it's better to give birth to you or that it's better to fall for you. However, please think carefully about the above.

There is a legal time limit for abortions, right?
Have you talked to your parents yet?
If not yet, it may be hard to say, but it will eventually come to light.
There are times when parents get angry later, “Why didn't you talk to them sooner,” so let's say it to your parents as soon as possible.
Rather than getting married, you need to decide whether to give birth or not to give birth as soon as possible.

If your boyfriend procrastinates when it comes to marriage, let's first discuss and decide whether to have children or not.

Hello, Aki.

You've got a child, haven't you? Please take care of your mother's body first.
It's hard to see what kind of person her boyfriend is,
There is a way to tell if he really has the intention to get married.
Please write a marriage registration and ask them to decide. And tell them I'll deliver it to the government office. You can do it even if you don't have time to deliver it to the government office. Of course, I'll just let you mark it, and you don't have to submit it.
If they hesitate to do that, it means they have no intention of marrying you. There is also a possibility of lying. Anyway, if you're going to have an abortion, you don't have time, so you need to determine if your partner is serious.

Do not be afraid of the consequences and respond calmly. Of course, living alone is one way.

Please feel free to contact us anytime. I'm rooting for you. Gassho

Instead of having an abortion for your child, wouldn't you actually have an abortion for your life? I think the problem is my boyfriend, but if he doesn't listen to me, I have no choice but to make my own decisions. There are time issues and financial issues, but most of all, I'm worried that your own body and mind will be hurt.
However, if you really need it for your life, you should also consider an abortion. However, I think you know more than me about taking a certain amount of risk. No matter what decision you make, I'm not going to attack you. If you're alive, you won't run out of worries, so whether you give birth or have an abortion, I would like to sincerely answer your concerns.
Right now, I should clearly communicate my condition and intentions to my boyfriend or my boyfriend's parents. That's all I can answer. http://ninshinsos-sodan.com/ There are also consultation agencies like this. I think you can try using it.