Facebook's repost appeal is annoying

I see. Until now, I didn't really understand why everyone would go out of their way to write about going on a trip or having a meal for others. Nor are they going to give me a souvenir. It was all a “rear-charging appeal”, wasn't it?

Well, if it's so blatantly appealing, people on the side that can't do it will be ruined, right? It's natural.
That's probably what bragging is.

If you have a certain amount of time to spare, say “Wow! I was devastated again! You might think, “I'm still going to do it, this guy,” but usually it's probably not easy to enjoy it that much.
Just because you quit Facebook doesn't make you feel better, so why not actively write “please give me a souvenir” or “invite me next time” instead of “like it” this time around. People who just brag about it and don't give you souvenirs or invite you are that kind of pottery, so don't worry too much about it. Wouldn't it be okay to refuse such information from here in the first place?
If someone with a big bowl invited me... this time SEC will charge the rear.

However, it's better to stop blatantly bragging (^^;)!

Well, it's a place for appeals and reports, isn't it?
Depending on how you feel on the day you see it, you might think wow! That's what I thought.
That's why I think I'm selfish, even if I'm doing it.

Let's make good use of it◎

　Hello. Mr. SEC. I'm not going into details. However, it's fine to use Facebook, and if that causes stress such as resentment or frustration, I would advise you to stop it right away. Internet addiction is now prevalent among young people, so it may be irreversible if you don't stop it now or moderate it. Unlike alcohol and gambling, it doesn't cost much money, so if you don't do well, you may become addicted without even realizing it...
I said “I like it!” in my social decree I'm pressing. What's more, it's only a day off, so it's just a matter of taking a break.
I think it's painful to be left behind in information, but if you're an SEC in your 30s, it seems like you can create other communities, so let's make more use of Facebook as another way to use it. I looked at other monks' Facebook pages and asked, “Is there such a way to proselytize?” I use it as a reference for temple management and the way monks live.

SEC-sama
My name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

I used to eat with my friend and they said “it's a rear charge”...
“Riaju...? Does it mean to be a priest in real life?” I answered and was laughed at once (-_-;)

Aside from that, Facebook is a place for repost appeal in the first place!
People use Facebook in order to appeal back!
... is that too much to say?
But there are times when it's hard to see how fulfilled your friends are when you're not in an active situation. I understand it very well.

Of course, there are cases where things are not fulfilling are reported, and it can also be used to announce events, etc., so it's a convenient tool.

If you open the friend list page from your own page, you can select how much information you want to receive from each partner.
These are the items “All updates,” “Most updates,” and “Critical updates only.” Also, it seems that you can select the type of information that will be shared here.
If it seems too frustrating, why don't you try these settings too?

Sec

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Speaking of which, recently, there was an article like the one below.

The reason why the increasing number of “Facebook quit declarations” and “repost appeals” are annoying
http://blogos.com/article/72896/

Even on the internet, there are various things that require consideration for others, and awareness about netiquette is required. The same applies to SNS, etc., which are fixed social community networks.

Even on Facebook, I think that posts and comments that do not cause inconvenience to others and that take a certain amount of consideration into the other person's feelings will be important in terms of netiquette. Of course, it will be a matter of repeated failures and reflections until you get used to it quite easily, but I want to use it as meaningfully as possible as I grow.

Among SNS, I use mixi, Twitter, and Facebook, but recently I've been trying to gather information using Facebook as the mainstream.

The purpose is to learn about the various activities of the Buddhist community, temples, and monks, and to use it for my own thoughts, efforts, and direction about the future state of Japanese Buddhism, temples, and monks. Therefore, the majority of my friends are monks, and I am thankful to have a relationship with them.

When it comes to “likes” and “shares,” I only push “like” things that I really think are “good,” and I don't press “like” too much unless it's a matter of private everyday life, such as personal eating, drinking, or traveling, etc., and things that aren't excessive, such as marriage, childbirth, or celebrations.

I think it's okay to set your own goals, construct your own rules within them, and try to use them with a certain degree of significance.

Also, if it's too inappropriate or unsuitable on your news feed, you can prevent it from being displayed, list your friends, and adjust the degree of check, so I think it's a good idea to set various conditions by referring to everyone's responses.

Anyway, participation and withdrawal are up to the person, and there is no need to use it separately until stress or dissatisfaction builds up, and if it causes various problems, I think it would be good to be able to quit quickly.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

Japanese people have always been humble, and they didn't reveal much about themselves.
However, with the spread of SNS, the number of ways to express oneself has increased.
It's just getting started, so no matter what, everyone has a lot of Oreo and Atascia Peels. (#^.^#)
What should I do with that upload? There are many people who say that.
But it's also important to read the feelings behind it.
There is some kind of statement of intent there, so it must not just be superficial.

I think we should show some kind of benefit, whether it's fakebook or whatever, what we output, and if we send it to others, it's good for ourselves and for the other party. What's more important is to sense it from any kind of information.
You can't use an Oreo Peel that just saved you.
But even among them, I think it's important to disseminate and find useful information for the other party and yourself, in order to upload, browse, and share.
Everything you upload and watch is your own act and activity.
I don't know about anyone else, but I want to broadcast and catch something that would benefit someone.
If it works well on the mind, the friend effect in the true sense of the word is great! That's because it's going to be.
Regardless of your opponent, what do you do and how do you accept it?
The act of accepting and evaluating it itself is also my own act. It has the biggest impact on myself. That's why my actions, how I feel, and my evaluations are my best friends. They can be bad friends and good friends.
“Don't ask what others do or don't do, just ask what you do and don't do.”

To SEC

I think there are many people who think the same way.

As Mr. Nakata says
Appropriate is probably best in a sense...

It means that friends who quit and ended relationships were in that kind of relationship.
Why don't you try using it with that feeling. Gassho