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My heart is too weak

I have a very weak heart.
I burst into tears as soon as I get angry,
It's just that the cell phone's signal or condition is bad
I almost burst into tears.
I'm most concerned about the first sight,
Is it because I'm sick?

What should I do to strengthen my heart
Please tell me.

4 Zen Responses

If your head is stiff, your heart will also be stiff, and you will crack right away

Anger and sadness are in the same family of emotions.
When anger or sadness prevents the heart from moving forward, tears come out.
Tears of anger and sadness come out when cornered by “I don't know what to do,” “I can't do anything,” and “I can't do anything.”
“Well, that's fine.” “○○ is no good now, so I should go with □□.” When the mind is able to find the next path and other options flexibly, and when you can flee flexibly to other options without being cornered, it's not so sad that tears come out.
You “worry about the first sight the most,” so even in situations where you can choose any other method if you don't care about the first sight, you may be cornered by narrow choices and your head gets stiff.
Therefore, it would be nice if I could quickly transform into myself in various ways without defining my own boundaries and not worrying too much about the first sight.
You should live flexibly, like a mollusk that fits into any gap, saying, “If you can't use your cell phone, let's do something else during this time.”

The age I'm worried about

Take a look now; over time, you too will get thicker.

Give up your self-love heart

You're in the park right now.
I'm in an incredibly big park called Space World.
The park is everyone's park, so unlike your own room, you can't do whatever you want.
All of the events in the world aren't just “good things” for me at this incredibly large world park; they are for everyone in the world.
This park is free, but there are tips for having a good time.
It's because I'm living in a park that doesn't belong to anyone,
A “good thing” is finding something out of nothing.
It's all nothing.
Your phone's battery didn't die or anything.
For the electric power company, you charged it, and the electricity bill was generated there, so it was a good thing for the electric company.
It was sad for you that your phone ran out of battery.
I took it as if it were [hurting myself].
It's not a way to enjoy the world's parks.
That's because I've put myself at the center. If you notice this, the problem will be solved right away.
It's probably just a fact originally.
That's just what happened.
Try ignoring “for you.”
It's just an event.
Being abandoned “for myself” makes my heart stronger.

Isn't it okay to shed tears

Aren't you adding selfish judgments to every event?

Getting angry is bad,
A bad cell phone signal is a bad thing,
crying is bad,

Is that really true? It's probably just a phenomenon. Nothing good or bad. I just woke up.

There is no cell phone signal → I think my heart is weak → I'm sure that must be the case.
Aren't you making a selfish decision?

The fact is that there is simply no cell phone signal.