About the destruction of my 2-year-old son

They're probably not doing it for vandalism.
I just want more love from my mom.
I'm asking you to pay more attention.
While I was at work, I was also looking for a lot of love, empathy, and coexistence; there were things I wanted people to understand; there were times I wanted people to understand; there were hard times; I cried; peeked; I wanted my mom to change my diapers; there were times when I wanted them to hold me tightly...
Being together and being by your side is what children want most, isn't it?
And they want you to apologize for not being there when you want them to do that.
It's easy to just look at superficial things, but it's up to parents to accept and guess the truth.
Express your love through words and contact.
Mothers, of course, love their children.
However, what children want is “the concrete act of feeling love from their mother.”
It's fine even if you cheat.
It would be nice to give them a tight hug.
Please acknowledge, forgive, and accept everything in a kind voice.

A 2-year-old still can't decide between right and wrong.
It is preferable to raise girls in a way that makes them think and convince them by speaking up.
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On the other hand, when raising boys, it's best to give them corporal punishment so they don't disobey.
Scold them out loud and slap them hard on the hand or butt
It makes me remember that if you do something bad, you'll be scared.
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Right now, I'm still powerless, but if I don't inflict corporal punishment for fear of trauma, it will be difficult for my parents later. By the age of 13, the physical strength of parents and children reverses. If you go wild, anything works, and if you think about it since you were little, it will eventually cause harm to your parents.
Therefore, it is about inflicting firm corporal punishment now and pounding the right and wrong things into the body.
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As they are now, if they become adults with selfish personalities, that is what children will feel sorry for.
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I'm scolding you because you love them. Please be confident.
Far from being traumatic, in the long run
There will always come a day when they thank you, saying, “Mom, thank you so much for hitting me at that time.”

My son, my daughter who is 4 years younger, is now 10 months old.

Both of them are called Raging Boys, but they are the King of Destruction.

Even if I try not to put anything close as possible, it's no use, and my daughter seems to have a habit of putting anything in her mouth, and my appliances are almost completely destroyed.

I was 2 years old, I was weaned, and my mom was able to do her best when it came to diapers.

I'm starting to understand it already. There are times when I want my mom to look at me, and it's even when I start sneaking around.

If you talk a lot and give them a tight hug, they'll feel at ease.

It's fine.

That's because we were raised by our parents who did the same thing.

It's fine.

　Hello. My 2 year old is just about what is called the bad season, and my wife says, “It was the hardest time.” I don't understand it from the question text, but I think it's even more so if it's the first child. Thank you for your hard work. And I respect you.
It is said in many ways as a parent's job, but “showing limits” is one of the major jobs. Teach your children, “Don't do this any more.” If you probably recall, the reason we were scolded when we were young was probably to teach our parents “what is good and what is wrong... not in the personal relationship of parents, but as people...” (that's why so-called honor students... people with few such opportunities... become adults and get in trouble).
Well, that's a common child-rearing story, but if you talk about Buddhism, name it “king,” that way of looking at it. All that is happening is “destroying things,” and it is probably parents or someone who attached the view of “king” to it. If it's just a “destroyer,” it's natural for the owner to get angry. It's not “I'm frustrated for no reason.”
Also, almost everyone has trauma. But there's nothing wrong with that in itself. Rather, it is an issue that each person should overcome. Fearing to respond “because it will be traumatic” is actually often an excuse for bothersome people. By all means, ask yourself.