Can Koyoshi's love be fulfilled at Tokyo Daijingu Shrine?

Hello, I'm always indebted to you
There is a rumor that if you draw Daikichi from the love lottery at Tokyo Daijingu, you will have a boyfriend within 3 months, so I won the love lottery.
However, the results were good.
In the content, it was written that love luck is reasonable, but can romance be fulfilled even in Koyoshi?
I promised my friend that I would stay single for the rest of my life, but that friend had a boyfriend and I'm full of impatience,
I turned 25 without even being able to have a boyfriend...
I feel so impatient when I think I'll be single the whole time if I stay like this.
However, people I like are also commentators, so there's no way I can achieve it.
In reality, I've never found someone close to me that I like.
No, to be precise, I was able to find someone I liked last year, but I was just curious because they were similar to my favorite commentators (even if I asked about hobbies, etc., I wasn't interested, and I thought it wouldn't fit)
So, it wasn't Daikichi, but can even Okichi ever fulfill a relationship or have a boyfriend?
If there are any monks who understand, I'd love to hear their opinions.
I've been to several shrines and have votive plaques written on them.
It conveys gratitude for being alive and conveys wishes.
Maybe they rely too much on shrines...
Incidentally, it was Kokichi in Koi Mikuji, but it was Daikichi in Enmu Subikuji

4 Zen Responses

The Buddha said.
“My apprentice doesn't tell fortunes.”
So, I can say one thing.
It means you don't have to rely on omikuji.
Rather than that, I think it's important to treat yourself with opportunities to meet good people while improving your own attractiveness.
You can also ask your friend's boyfriend if they have any good friends.
I hope you meet good people.

An opportunity to change the way we live

If your way of life up until now isn't going well, it's a good idea to change your way of life a little bit.
I think it's a good idea to use an omikuji as an opportunity for that.

The omikuji itself is a printed material manufactured by humans.
If you keep drawing as many times as you like until Daikichi comes out, probabilistically, Daikichi will come out someday.
Omikuji is a form of leisure.
It's good to enjoy omikuji, but don't rely too much on omikuji.

Regardless of the results of the fortune lottery, there is a possibility that love will be fulfilled.
For now, why don't you lower your ideals and go out with someone?
Because as you have new experiences and get new information, new ideas will come to mind.

Don't worry about it

Tokyo Daijingu Shrine is famous for romance, but there are many people who broke up in Daikichi, and there are also many people who even got married in Daikichi. Fortune telling is like that.
An encounter is a relationship. If you ask for it, you'll meet one day or another.
Don't be disheartened by your fortune telling. It's about doing it as part of the fun.

Instead of relying on such spirituality and mysterious powers, I want you to refine your own inner appeal.
Speaking of Buddhism, people spend their time aiming for a wonderful and attractive person like a Buddha. Naturally, people will come to attractive people's places.

Love can be fulfilled even if it's bad.

Nice to meet you, Miss Misa.

When I read the consultation statement, I felt that it wasn't “I want a lover,” but that I wanted an escape route because I wanted to do something about the current situation. For example, if there was a man who was thinking about what was written in this consultation statement, would Misa want to go out with him? You don't think so, do you? That's because I have a lover around me, and I don't have one, so I want one. I think this is because I think it actually doesn't matter if it's “because Misa” or not.

If you want something only in the form that you can call your lover, you can quickly find it on internet bulletin boards etc. However, I don't think that's really what Misa is looking for.

I think both God and men see women living by valuing what is right in front of them. First of all, if you start by reviewing your work, cleaning your room, and valuing men close to you (as humans) even if you don't like them, I think they've already been done but you can't go around in a hurry, but I think love will progress as Misa's heart satisfies.

In Buddhism, there is a saying, “When the disciples are ready, the teacher appears.” It's not the other way around. Let's start with cleaning. I'm rooting for you. Gassho

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