Visit your marriage partner's grave
It's been a little over a year since we got married. I visited my husband's grave at my parents' house three times in the past year, such as the end of the year, Obon, and Ohigan. My parents-in-law also seem to take it for granted that I go visit my husband's grave.
However, my husband never came to visit my parents' grave. We took it for granted that we would go to each other, but that wasn't the case with my husband and parents-in-law.
I've already married and become a member of the ○○ (husband's surname) family, so it's natural for me to come.
The graveyard visit at the △△ (my maiden name) family is an event for the △△ family, so I think it's a bit different for ○○ to go there. I was told...
I couldn't say that to my real mother, so my husband and I went to visit graves properly, so I went there alone.
It's not just this, but isn't it too unequal?? Don't you think my husband's idea is strange? I can't help it because I'm a wife, because I'm a wife. I'm tired of listening to it...
