I doubt him

Maybe he'll lie to you for the rest of your life.
If you don't mind that, fine,
Would that benefit him?
What would his wife think if she found out about this fact again?
Have you thought about his wife?
I'm just trying my best to penetrate your lies in order to answer that wife.
If you still hope you're still alive, that's fine,
Are you OK as you are?

My name is Tetsuma Hasegawa and I am Kannazuki.
Thank you for your support.

I hear you're suspicious of the boyfriend you've been in a relationship with for 20 years. When I read the sentences, I get the feeling that Kannazuki-san still wants to believe in her boyfriend, and that if she admits it's a lie, it's unbearable that it would be undermining what you've done to him until now.
However, Kannazuki has already noticed it, right? His words and actions up until now were lies in order to withdraw money from Kannazuki-san. I think it's very hard to admit this. However, Kannazuki has already noticed it, so there is no going back.
In terms of Buddhism, the present exists depending on how the past is perceived, and conversely, the meaning of the past is determined by how the present is. In other words, if Kannazuki's present and future are happy, the past where she kept being deceived was also a wonderful life experience. I think it's painful to separate your feelings from the guy you've been in a relationship with for 20 years, but now is the time to do it. If you can hope for your own happiness and live a solid life, your past experiences will shine through. Also, it's a learning experience for him.
I think it's painful, but the Buddha and your ancestors are also watching over Kannazuki hoping for happiness, so please gather your courage and act. There are absolutely no bad results. It will definitely get better.

Did you get the answer?
I hope to see you again.

The title says “I doubt him,” and I read your inquiry, and I felt that way too.
There was a saying, “If you blame him, you'll regret it later.” Don't blame me. If you borrow it, it's natural to return it, so all you need to do is ask if you can return it normally. Also, as Kannazuki surely thinks so, unfortunately, I don't think the money will be returned. If I were willing to return it, I wouldn't be able to borrow it for this long.
I'm sorry about my illness, but just the fact that I kept lying about my divorce for 15 years made everything else go hazy.

If you sue him, Kannazuki can claim a large amount of alimony. If you lied about getting divorced and made them feel like they were promised marriage, it is unmistakable marriage fraud.

If you think you don't want to go to trial, you probably have no choice but to completely forget about the past and move forward.

Whichever one you choose, I think you'll be a cool woman.

(Below, we use unique expressions to keep you awake in this discussion, but please bear with us because they are meant to reduce the pain of the wound even a little by laughing.)
① About money
Tomorrow, my cell phone is broken, so please change the model.
(Please leave your cell phone with someone, not at home, where email exchanges are proof.)
Since it is physical evidence, there is a big possibility that it will eventually be destroyed.
If you appeal to legal action, you may be able to get your money back because you are a victim of fraud.

② Should we break up or not
The answers have already come out from the three men.
Men are such creatures. I understand because I'm a man too.
Zumari, that guy is the worst scammer.
It was bad but I was caught (^o^) Let's acknowledge that and break up.
Nobody wants to admit they've been scammed.
③ About his true nature
“Ah? I didn't get divorced because I didn't want to get divorced. why? hahaha I wasn't the kind of woman I would go out with until I remarried. We continued our delicious relationship and received money.”
I wonder where he is lying around. A life filled with lies. I think it's okay to have them die of cancer as punishment for continuing to deceive you. ←It's a lie anyway, so I'm not going to die (laughs) I'm just going to die someday.
Even if you actually die, if you go to that world without your real wife finding out, a complete crime will be established, and you will feel frustrated until the end.

④ You should ask your wife to pay for the surgery. Break up the relationship and say, “Shall we do it in half?” An ironic confirmation would also be a good idea. In order to clearly break up a relationship with him, you should wash your wife without telling him. I would rather have my wife on my side. Try requesting money. All you have to do is insist that you lent it as a victim. That's where his true nature comes out. At that time, you will be able to witness his greatest performance of the century or his true form.

⑤ He has a natural predisposition to be a pimp.
Publish a book and get it back. Please publish it under the title “How to Fool Women for 20 Years, I Was Deceived,” and it will sell. The title is written by me in one stroke.

*Fraudsters use clever psychological manipulation to control their opponents so as not to make them think they are impostors.
Like women at night withdrawing money from men with skilful speech skills and similar affection.
Maybe my story is a lie too, right? (Hush)
Please embark on a new life.

Have you been in a relationship for over 20 years~
Have you been in a relationship for a long time and are you in a relationship (feeling) that is hard to break?

It's a strange story to be continuously asked for a large amount of money, no matter how forgiving you. Besides, after all, the reality is that adulterous relationships continue.

All you have to do is stay by my side... It won't be true happiness for you.

It's just a matter of being swayed by him while being told that even if you stick with him, you'll return the money little by little. (When you lend money to others, you won't get it back! I'll give it to you! (If you don't think about it, you'll regret it)
If you want even a small amount back, you have no choice but to go out in public. It's impossible to make verbal promises.

It must be painful since it's someone I fell in love with.
Let's add some shrew here. For future happiness.