hasunoha

Monk's Marital Quarrel Situation

After all, they don't make their voices hoarse, are they just quietly introspecting with “Hum, I'm right now Nikitewol,” and are they just waiting patiently for the storm of emotions to pass? It's not going to be a very intense fight, is it?

My family has been fighting all these days with my husband. We haven't made mistakes with each other, and that's why we put up with it so much that our thoughts and feelings freeze, and the eerie atmosphere is tense.

What are monks like?

4 Zen Responses

A monk is also a child of man

I read it.

I used it as medicine for an imaginary monk's fight with his wife. Due to a fight between my parents who are my mentors and monks
That's because they look just like each other. My mother often complains to my father, but my father is Archaic
Smile and say, “Yes.” I'm only saying that. They don't make a loud voice, no, my mom does
So, is it quiet? It's a fight.

I'm still an immature person, and sometimes I talk back and forth when my mother scolds me. There's still not enough training, is there? I repent to the Buddha every day.

Well, maybe it's like that

In my case, I haven't had any serious fights with my wife since I got married.
There are arguments, or rather differences of opinion.
But does it feel like they'll find a compromise in the end?

Rather than fighting, there are times when I'm frustrated because of my own circumstances.
When you're busy and pressed for time, or when you're not feeling well, etc., the point is that it's all right.

Everyone has afflictions such as greed, anger, laziness, and pride.
Worry causes worry, suffering, and stress.
Therefore, both husband and wife must be careful about their own worries,
It is better to forgive “each other” forgiveness with compassion for the other person's afflictions.
Also, sometimes, couples are the ones who scold and encourage each other so that someone who seems to lose to their worries doesn't succumb to their worries.

Diamond (or kongo in Buddhist terms) is a very hard substance.
In order to polish diamonds, diamonds are necessary.
Let's think we met in order to improve each other.
(There was such content in a collection of poems I read a long time ago.)

Is it compassion

I read it.

is it creepy air...
hmm.

“Hum, I Am Now Nikitewol”
“Nantes, high-pressure nonsense”
There have been many attempts to incorporate thoughts that objectively grasp things, etc.

But I'm human too.
We haven't reached that point yet.

In my case, no matter how angry I am, I don't look bad.
I think that's sincerity.

Don't make a loud voice.
Don't use foul language.
If you think the other person is right, apologize honestly.

I know that is the key to success.

If you live your life, you will always cause trouble to your partner.
They spilled rice, fiddled with flower beds and went straight up, leaving the entrance full of sand.

They are criticized every time, but when I'm sorry, I honestly apologize.
My partner doesn't blame me any more and silently cleans up for me.
Thanks again for that kindness.

It's turned into some kind of lackluster story.

It's like each other.
I live my life while being grateful every day for supporting such poor people.

I'm cleaning rather than fighting.

Everyone is an individual personality. Since individuals gather, of course, there may be trouble due to differences of opinion or differences in values.
But I've never yelled at my wife, let alone touched her in the past. But they're probably still immature. There are things in my heart that I think wow. The fact that it shows up in their attitude is probably indulgent.
When each other's hearts aren't going smoothly, I clean up foggy.