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I can't stop blaming myself, saying, “Poor people who aren't popular will die.”

I'm indebted to you.

I'm homosexual,
Every time an encounter or romantic relationship ends unwell,
I don't feel like I've caused trouble to my partner.

Even if no specific trouble has occurred,
The fact that it took time and energy for people like me
I feel sorry for the other party.

“If you're not a popular type, it's not yesterday's today's thing,
Give up on love once and for all”

“My boyfriend even though I don't have any friends, huh? That's a joke”

“Die, poor man”

While chewing on the reality that didn't go well,
My head was filled with remorse,
I'm losing my energy for work etc.

Not only those who had some kind of real contact,
For example, even if I just see someone of the type I like on TV, etc.
It makes me feel sorry.
“It would be a nuisance to be supported or liked by people like me.”

Should I go to the hospital?

Thank you for your support.

4 Zen Responses

What does it mean to be popular

The mask excavated from our field (I actually bought it at a flea market for 300 yen) is named Motemote-sama, wrote a lot of kiss marks, enshrined in the kitchen, and praised as “popular” by couples, parents, and children, and it is useful.
People are popular, praised, and liked by anyone! Should it be done?
A good relationship cannot be said if the husband is not popular with his wife, the wife from the husband, the parent from the child, and the child from the parents.
Incidentally, it seems that they are lamenting that they aren't popular, but even though Takikuri is “no popularity,” it doesn't get caught by chopsticks or sticks, even if it's not popular at all, even if it's cool. I would like to say that cute things can be made. It's an age where it's possible to make things that are popular.
Imadoki Girls are also struggling with a kind of selfless state of makeup that has caused them to lose their original shape, such as color control, makeup, and lots of makeup, 3 times more, 10 times more, yet they are hurt and feigned by just one word.
I will write the announcement from Motemote-sama and the Oracle on my behalf.
“Being popular means being popular”
“Being popular is the ability to respond to the other person's demands, and this is what it takes.”
“Popular people are things that give moisture when they're thirsty, give you coolness when it's hot, and give you warmth when it's cold.”
These are not Buddhist scriptures, but are described in “Popular Sutra Chapter 1,” which is currently being written.
Karate, kendo, judo, kyudo, tea ceremony, flower arrangement, and gokudo also have words that express the essence of that path.
The world of men and women isn't just about looks.
Any path is respectful of the other person, and if there is a feeling of responding to the other person's requests and the spirit of being friendly, it is possible to have a heart-to-heart relationship even without romantic fulfillment.

It's easy, isn't it?

Mr. Seita.

The question was before Christmas, how are you doing after that?
Every time you fail in love, you don't blame your partner; you blame yourself.
He's a kind person, isn't he?

If a doctor prescribes medicine that works for love, I recommend going to the hospital, but what are the benefits of going to the hospital personally??? That's it.

I think the skill to fall in love and the skill to make love last a long time are different things.

Love that elementary school students think about. Romance that middle school and high school students think about. adult romance.
Everyone probably has different ideas about what they use to fall in love.

It's not because of your own complexes; it may also be due to your approach to romance or how you share your values.

Not all popular people have happy relationships.
The conditions you think are popular don't necessarily match what your partner is looking for.

Love from the perspective of the person I fell in love with, love from the perspective of someone who needed me.
Before lamenting yourself, I think it is necessary to take care of yourself and the effort and effort to fulfill your love.

Mercy Saves the Earth

You're having such a painful feeling that you feel sorry for someone you've fallen in love with. Not only is love happy, but it's natural to have painful and painful feelings. You don't need to go to the hospital. However, because of that, Seita's sense of remorse is unbearable, so there are no words at all.

The so-called “love” we usually use is something that is inherently selfish and self-centered. It's painful if the other person doesn't turn around, and it's fun if things go the way you want them to. Compared to that, opposite-oriented feelings are called “mercy.” I think it will take time, but when Seita has a feeling of mercy and caring for his partner rather than love, the suffering should clear up.

Not self oriented, but opponent oriented. “Love” will not save the Earth. What saves the Earth is “mercy.”

Settle for each other, come to terms with each other (Professor Fujiya Tomita)

Seita-sama
My name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

When I was young, my encounters and relationships didn't go well, and I was often depressed. Since Seita falls in love with people of the same sex, I think there is a high probability that it will end up even worse, but what do you think?

When the sadness and sadness of not being able to get through with one's own feelings overlaps, the feeling of self-denial becomes stronger, doesn't it? It means that just watching the type of person I like on TV makes me feel sorry, so I felt like this self-denial was piling up.

In the end, I think the only silver bullet is “those who take care of themselves and those who need them.” They fall in love with it, and the results cause trouble. If you're afraid of that, you won't be able to date people. Counselor Dr. Fujiya Tomita often says, “Let's fight, come to terms, we're each other.” Wouldn't it be fine, even if it bothers you? I think that's what it means for people to live in society.