Maybe I'm in love with my college teacher

I think that is love after all.

Isn't it okay to have a crush on your teacher? wonderful thing.
That was the case with me, so I understand very well. It's natural for a feeling of respect to turn into love ◎
Doesn't it depend on how you feel about hiding it or confiding it?

However, since it's a teacher-student relationship, think carefully before moving on to the next action. It would be difficult if my current fun relationship was broken, and the students around me knew about it, and it wasn't a place to study.

Take your time to relax and warm up that feeling (*^_^*)

Personally, I support it◎

I think it's a sober self-analysis.
Strictly speaking, I don't know if it's love or a feeling of seeking fatherhood unless it's you.
The most important thing in Buddhism is “watching yourself” and “watching yourself” no matter what you do.
The person watching himself referred to here is a person who closely watches what they are doing in their heart.
If you look at yourself, you can understand “what kind of things you think of yourself” no matter where you are and what you do.
If you know “what you're recalling,” you won't lure yourself into a path that interferes with you.
Whether you're with someone, in love, or alone, watching yourself.
An ascetic practitioner who knows the way looks closely at himself, so he can maintain a calm self even when he is with his partner.
When many people fall in love, their partner takes their feelings for them, and they don't look at themselves.
“I love you, mmm, love fire melamera,” and I'm leaving it up to one-sided feelings from here on out.
If you watch “Why am I interested in that person” closely, I think you will be able to see what you are looking for.
Whether in love, parent-child relationships, or friendship relationships, humans remain themselves for the rest of their lives, even as relationships with others unfold. My whole life.
People who are swayed by others don't have themselves in a bad sense.
It's a lifetime of being swayed and dependent on others and partners.
A famous monk from the Kamakura period called Dogen Zenji is shown as “nothing else can be deceived.”
Why do people lose their heart and be disturbed by others even though they are themselves for the rest of their lives?
Even those who are aware of it are themselves who are aware of it.
Since they don't take a close look at themselves, which is the root of this, they are swayed by others.
It's important, so a little more.
Even if we say that we are conscious of others, the source of that awareness is none other than within our own body (mind).
Example: Even if someone you don't like isn't right in front of you, it's me that always cares about you
I'm also the one who always cares about the past

Taking a close look at yourself means taking a close look at where you are aware of others, so don't lose sight of yourself and be a great source of strength throughout your life.
It's an easy sentence, but it explains the ultimate in Buddhism, so please check it out.

Nao-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

“I'm in love ~ ♪ you probably haven't noticed ~? ♪” (“CHE.R.RY” YUI)

Indeed, I feel attracted to that teacher as a person of the opposite sex and fall in love with it, or maybe they have sought paternity and fell in love with it... it's exciting and exciting, but it's really bothersome for me.

Even in order to confirm your true feelings, it might be a good idea to try to convey them. Of course, you can't say “try confessing” irresponsibly. There is also a fear of getting hurt or being heartbroken, or it is possible that subsequent relationships and relationships around you will go bad... but love is an adventure. Even if you wait for happiness, it won't come from the other side. It is only when you work hard, including refining yourself, to become happy.

In any case, I hope you can think about whether or not to convey them while firmly facing your own feelings.

“Love” is good, isn't it? “Love” is important. I have also answered this question a little bit in response to the following question.

Question “I want to help his heart”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/51

Now, with just a little bit of caution, if you are longing for fatherhood and seeking fatherhood, you may also see the opposite sex as an entity that protects you in various ways, for example, as a guardian/caregiver. In this case, the balance as an equal romantic relationship between men and women can easily be lost, so I think it is necessary to be careful.

Anyway, no matter how strong these feelings are, it will be difficult for a relationship to continue without compassion, consideration, and sincerity on the part of the person who responds. I believe it is important to be able to move forward in life by supporting and helping each other so that we can be happy, and make an effort to maintain a balance of sharing.

I wish Nao-sama happiness.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

　Nao-san, I'm sorry that it seems like Rock Paper Scissors later, but I was a little worried when I saw the answers and thank-you replies up until now. Not like a student, not like a teenager. Too much comprehension. I'm too afraid of failure. It's a pattern where you can't act because you read too much of the surrounding air. If this question is a middle school or high school student, I think it would be good to carefully warm up the confession and determine what should be conveyed, but are college students also junior college, and job hunting next year? it's graduation, isn't it?
What I like about college teachers because they have fatherhood is probably because they have charms that classmates and boys of the same generation don't have. The face is pretty nice too, isn't it?
Make a conclusion and confess. I'll say it clearly. In order to overcome one's own shy personality, love cannot begin by leaving it up to others. I have to do it myself. The surrounding air doesn't matter how long you stay in school for another year. Moreover, when it comes to job hunting, I can hardly care about anyone else.
I think it's better to act and then think about later than to regret not doing anything. If you keep messing around, I think teachers will be taken by other women through matchmaking etc.
Even if you fail, repeated failures and setbacks while young will be a good fertilizer for the future (I have experienced it). After graduating from my current university and getting a job, I think I'll meet wonderful people again. Let's also recognize that there are many more diverse worlds. If someone you like shows up somewhere, I think the way to confess is something I've reflected on from the previous time, so I think I'll devise some ingenuity.
It's up to you whether you trust my answers or not. Basically, romance is at your own risk, so...