What is a parent

Parents must be adults.
In Buddhism, adults are called dinins.
In other words, they are enlightened people who understand the truth.

The values that are right and wrong are all created by humans. Everything that is conscious of the eyes around you, such as in general or normal, is simply created by people.
There is no such thing as right or wrong. People add selfish values to that.

Even if you look at the trees in the garden, there must have been a situation before that there was no name for “tree.” That's where people came up with names of their own accord. So are the colors. Since the name Akada no Ocha Iroda was given, the thing itself has just existed like that.
That's what facts are.

Thoughts are just thoughts. That's not true.
As you have noticed, adults must guide the way to salvation by living by devoting themselves to facts, and guide children so that they can have a heart of mercy.

You have to teach them the general rules, but you also have to know that they are not true.

How did you become a parent?
The answer is simple. That's because a child was born, isn't it?
I have a daughter. I'll soon be 1 year old.
I became a parent and will soon be 1 year old.
So they're the same age.
There are so many things I don't understand (laughs) I'm sure my daughter is confused too.
What's the difference with my daughter? It's an experience.
But this experience doesn't seem to be useful or conveyed until my daughter is a little older.
Wouldn't that be fine if we walk together without being unscrupulous?

She was a mother who gave birth to seven children and never stopped smiling

My sick father is an alcoholic, and the whole family is a shambles, but on the other hand, he is a teacher

My father grew up watching my rough mother's hardships and support my mother who didn't complain

I also know a side of a good father and live the heartache of my troubled father as my own

I grew up watching my rough father and think about my old self that I should have in the future

　Good evening. I'm asking about the meaning of “what is a parent”, not a definition.
First of all, the answer title is “not fixed,” but all of the “signposts,...” you mentioned below are correct. Also, there are things that are different. In other words, you're right,
Whether each of these is “correct or not for that situation” depends on the relationship with that situation. In other words, it's not “always absolutely right.” What is derived from this is that “real-time judgment is necessary.” In other words... it also means “there is no guarantee that good results will always come out.”
However, broadly speaking, there's a point you've overlooked. It means “communicating limits.” I think saying “no more than this” or “up to this point” is something parents should tell them. This is something that is easy to overlook and difficult. Parents themselves must know that “there are things they have to give up somewhere.” If you don't know that, your Montpe degree will increase.

Nice to meet you
I'll tell you what I felt

I am also someone's parent
I think about this question from time to time

I want to be like this
I don't like parents like this
There are a lot of things that come up
I don't think there is a right answer to the method as a parent
I always look back and think
I think that's important

I think it's okay for each person to have their own parent
The child in front of me is showing me the answer
It would be nice if I could look back on myself while watching my child

By all means, let's worry together

Thank you for speaking up like this
I would be happy if you could use it as a reference

Gassho