Do children choose their parents to be born?

If children can choose their parents, there won't be so many painful accidents or incidents, and they can't choose

I see that they probably worry a lot about children
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There are also things like this; there is no need to be familiar to rely on anything else when you're in trouble

There are many parents all over the country who are confused about raising children, and everyone is worried that they may have problems raising their own children, and that they should not be parents like this
If you look for it, there should also be a community where such parents gather, and it may make you feel better if you can receive advice from parents who have the same problems from such places and also from counselors

Your child still doesn't know if you're glad you're a parent
That's why my kids start saying I'm glad my mom is my mom
Child-rearing is not just about parents raising their children; at the same time, they must grow up to be parents who are excited about their children

Just as parents educate their children, please feel that parents are also being educated by the world and their own children, and I support them

You must be having a hard time.
Raising children is hard, isn't it?
I'm worried about whether I'll be able to raise children well.
Aren't mothers the ones who are frustrated or can't be treated with a smile?
Delusions that aren't going well and that other parents might have been better create painful causes.
Please hug and feel your child before you think about various things.
I think your kids are desperately looking for you.

I once said this to my wife who was raising children.
“When raising children, I think I should feed my kids, change their diapers, and hug them.
You don't have to do more than that. I think that's enough for kids to grow up.
All that's left to do is add what you can do.”

In Buddhism, it is said that life (being born) is painful.
Think of suffering as “not going the way you want it to.”
If you can choose, it will be whatever you want, so it won't be a pain anymore.
If you can choose, you'll only be born into rich families.
At the end of the day, I think the children you worked so hard to raise will tell you that you are a parent.
First, have confidence and raise children that suit your height.
Please do your best. I'm praying for you.

The Buddha's mother passed away soon after giving birth to Buddha.
Nevertheless, the Buddha grew up well.
Since you're alive, and you're working hard to raise them, there's no way your children won't grow well.
You can leave it as is.

First of all, children don't choose who to parent, but your child is definitely your child, and you are the only mother for that child.
In that respect, the expression that I chose you only holds true.
It's fine.
It seems that all the people who came to talk about their problems the other day were also troubled by that.
・I wish they hadn't been born
・Will it appear in the newspaper someday
・Not suitable for raising children
It seems that they blame themselves for thinking this way.
You can think about it.
Even now, while changing 0-year-old diapers all the time,
It says “amen.”
“Amen dodge” (laughs).
But once I said it, it's refreshing. If the dam's barrier is broken, dissatisfaction gas will flow and be refreshed.
After that, it's diapers, powdered milk, and lots of milk.
This is the first time anyone has ever raised a child.
Even if it's my second child, that child is the first child to raise a child.
It's the right parenting for that child.
Children can't express themselves well, so they can only cry and get angry.
But I'm glad you're a parent.
It doesn't have to be you.
It's your alter ego. No, it's also you.
However, once, please be aware of your own rules that bind you even for this kid.
Then, turn off all of my rules like smartphone/mobile phone settings.
People who are serious and try too hard become neurotic.
Kids only have “one thing they want to do.” But when I don't understand that, sorry, I have no choice but to try out various things while apologizing for not being Wakara.
I recommend watching comedy DVDs while breastfeeding.
You won't get frustrated if you don't even double book what you want to do.
What gets frustrated is getting frustrated because there's something I want to do.
Please treat children without even thinking that they will force them to stop crying or do as their parents wish.
Let's spend time without imposing parents' rules that “children have things they want to do.”
When my heart is really in pain, it would be nice if my husband or children could come to the temple for zazen sessions.

If you think about reincarnation on the premise, children were also some other creature before they were born humans.
When I died in a previous life, I was able to be born under you because you had the energy to seek life that “I still want to live,” and because you had the virtue to be born as a human being.
Humans are creatures at a high level that are quite blessed among living things, so it's not that easy to become humans.
Being born as a human is pretty happy in itself, so I was quite lucky to have a mother who prepared a “container” for the chance to be born as a human being.
It's like taking a school exam. Even if your child has the academic ability to enter a human college, they will not be able to pass active duty if the recruitment capacity on the university side is small.
But this time, there was just a frame to fit in. Exactly, there was a connection.
Even if you are recruiting, you won't be born without examinees who will come.