Is my way of thinking wrong

It's a wonderful family.

I feel that your husband is also spoiled by your kindness.

Why don't you just accept them as cute?

I think it's a tough day to raise children and work.

In Buddhism, there is a phrase called “Japanese face love language.”

It is one of the Buddha's ascetic practices.

Why don't you play them with a kind face and words full of love?

I'm sure they'll be a happier family than they are now.

There must have been a good reason why my husband thought they were “similar” when it came to sweets.
For example, an acquaintance of mine can't tell the difference between curry rice and hashed rice (I think it's almost the same dish just because the spiciness is different).
It's probably “similar” to that person.

So, how about starting with “yes,” “yeah,” and “that's right” with the first word of conversation with your husband?
Why don't you keep up with “Yes,” “the ○○ part is similar, isn't it?” and then continue saying, “But the ○○ point is different, so it's a candy from another store, isn't it?”
Even in other conversations, it seems that it's easier to get the conversation going if you return the first sentence with a positive reply.

Also, people feel “warm” when their partner takes time for themselves, and they feel “cold” when they don't spare time.
Being able to spend time on your husband's Shaumonai conversation is troublesome, but spending time on that should warm up the marital relationship.
This can also be said for children.
Japanese facial expressions (gentle smiles and words) are also important.
Don't think too hard, let's experiment with your husband as a technique.

Men are a bit complicated, aren't they?
I don't think my husband just wants me to agree.
Don't you want to stand in a better position than you?
In the old days, it's probably like “get a man.”
I think my husband is so anxious. I don't think I'm standing on top.
It's probably a kid.

There's nothing wrong with your way of thinking.
But it's definitely not right.

When speaking, “Where did you think (similar) were you?” Let's refute it after asking that.
I want to know what you think after you've made an appeal
I think they're listening to their opinions, and I think they might be in a bad mood.

Perhaps the biggest problem this time is the problem with your heart thinking that your husband's husband, Kanpaku, is annoying.

“YES! Takasu Clinic!”
Hello.
At the Zen training dojo, you can only say “hi or yes” when getting started. seriously.
The times have changed. In order to survive in the current training dojo steeped in an industry where there are many terranomuscos,
Today only “Hi or Yes.” “YES!” Takasu Clinic!
Let's shape our minds according to the trend of the times.
Let's say you're talking to someone.
“Hey, hey, I just want you to listen to it.” “no”
“Hey, don't you think this is 00?” “No”
“Hey, this isn't super tasty.” “But”
How is it. It would be super annoying.
You're doing it.
There, too, a “demo. but. Deer. Nah.” didn't you say something like that?
“I'm not playing catch.” I'm playing baseball.
Even though playing catch is the basic rule of conversation between husband and wife, you are hitting back on each other.
I'm bringing in a bat.
What's more, when I talk about this, oh, my husband is too. You'd think something like that. You can't do that. There is no acceptance.
First, let's take our own things as ourselves.
Your husband, you too. (Please read this for two)
There's nothing more meaningless than a fight between husband and wife.
Rather than whether or not which one can break, it's just a good idea to fold the bat you brought into the catch ball during the couple's conversation.
Marital fights don't even eat dogs. They were good friends and played catch of love.
Examples/when you think it's different
“I look like Kimutaku, right?”
✖ “Eh” “Nah”
〇 “Yeah. Super similar, like the number of holes in their nostrils.”
Yeah yeah, you're right, that's right. First of all, it's important to accept even if it's a lie.