About dating a deputy chief priest who has a wife and wife

In conclusion, it depends on the people themselves, but I wonder if “it's safer to break up”

Now, is it OK if he who really cares about you doesn't care about his wife and children, nor does he have any particular affection for him
Or if the wife and children are also seriously important, they are all things that are seriously important

There may be a perception among you that “it's not an affair,” but if you look at it from other points of view, “it's nothing other than an affair.”

“I have a wife and wife, but I can't stand my sexual desire, and they've hooked up with women as appropriate, but it's not an affair lol” well who would be convinced when I said that

What is the reason he can't get divorced

“I went to the temple as my son-in-law, so I found out about my affair and when I got divorced, I lost my job; that's a problem, but I want a woman outside.”
“He was born as the son of a temple, a deputy chief priest, married and has children. I'm in trouble if I get divorced and get noticed or bothered by parishioners, but I want a woman outside.”

Well, which one is it, well, whichever one is fine

The fact that you can't get divorced from your standpoint is nothing but a convenient excuse for you; if you say this, you'll be convinced, well, that's it

If you lose your job or are billed for alimony and child support due to divorce, there is no place where they can't get divorced because they are stuck with you and can't live, and the only reason you can't get divorced after all is that one point, in other words, his self-preservation

It doesn't matter if we're dating as we are
However, even if he finds out and is carrying a huge amount of alimony at your age now, he may apologize but he won't help you
In other words, when things actually turn bad, it's you who gets cut off by him

You wrote that it hurts my heart, but it's been going on for 6 years, that's a long time
However, at the time I'm writing it here, somewhere in my heart, I don't think there's a feeling that it's still in time if there's a possibility that it will end because they haven't found out yet?
Or is it going to be official if you push your back here?

If the former is the feeling you still have in your heart, then this is probably your last chance.
He can cut Shira or cut you off in case of emergency, so it's unlikely that he'll break up with him

I hope you can stand firm and move forward without making wrong decisions

The suffering will not go away even if it continues as it is now.
Also, there will come a time when the current reasonably peaceful state will be destroyed someday.
On the other hand, even if we end the current state of affairs, a different kind of suffering will occur.

However, you can control the timing yourself when it comes to “finishing,”
If it “breaks down,” there is a possibility that it will suddenly strike at an unexpected time without time to prepare.
So it might be a little easier to do controllable convergence while you can control it.

Please confide that you are discussing us here at Hasunoha. If you can't confide, then you're being unfaithful.
Well, if you're honest as a monk, you shouldn't have a relationship between a man and a woman. stop it.

Sorry, you've already answered. From now on, if people around you aren't aware, stop relationships between men and women and change relationships as parishioners or believers. If you can't do that, leave.

Let's bring it to light first.
You probably don't want to show up about cheating or infidelity.
If you insist that it's not an affair or affair, you can “bring it to light.”
That's where you decide if he's a devil, a raccoon, or a monk.
Does that boy cover his head during the date?
Do they meet in court clothes all over town? They're probably hiding it.
You should have caught that silent message.

“However, it is said that no matter what, from their standpoint, they cannot get divorced.
There is no infidelity or affair between us. I'm seriously talking about never breaking up.”

⇒Yeah. it's definitely an affair. I'm just making you think otherwise.
She's definitely a “convenient woman.”
In order to protect our pride and dignity, we don't want to think so, so we're just making up our own excuses. sorry for that. they say there are better men.
People who have something to hide will fill it up with lies.
They probably want to hide who you are, too.
“I love you” is 800 lies, isn't it?
If I really love you, I'll quickly get divorced and start my life with you all over again.
Not doing that means I'm just enjoying the pleasure with you and using it.
You must have noticed for yourself that you and he are lying to each other.
Even if we split up separately, there are many more clean and innocent partners, so let's get rid of the brainwashing and start a decent relationship now. I was deceived by the word love.
Exactly in order to be strong and independent as a woman! To that end, let's split up today. It's about selling material to weekly magazines.
Let the world decide whether your love is true love or not.