hasunoha

You can't be happy unless you're beautiful, so what should you do about being clumsy

I hate my face and it's irresistible. The forehead is wide, the eyes are narrow, and the nose is low, and it doesn't change even if there are no products and makeup does not change (only people with good roots change with makeup)

Because of that, people have always hated me. Once upon a time, I was told by someone I liked, “I have a good personality, but I'm not good with my face.”

I couldn't get a job at the manufacturer I wanted to get a job at, and now I don't like customer service that doesn't suit me at all. The customers are cold to me because they don't want to be treated ugly either. (Isn't disgust showing in their attitude? You may be told, but why does your colleague get that person so angry? (It makes me wonder, so I don't think it shows up in the attitude)

They couldn't even have a relationship, and all matchmaking was turned down before they met in pictures, and they were all alone until this year. I was hopeless when my matchmaker told me that men place importance on appearance. People can't see what's inside unless they're beautiful first.

Since parents are on bad terms and there are no siblings, it is almost certain that people will die alone in the future.

Every day I curse my parents in my heart as to why they didn't give birth to a beautiful woman. If you were beautiful, you wouldn't have to go through any trouble.

There are people who say it's hard being beautiful, but that's absolutely false. Don't talk about how difficult it is for people to come over and choose, and the pain of not having anyone stop by, I think they'll die.

I feel like everyone is laughing at me in the shadows anymore. I want to die. Why was she born like this? There is no need for clumsy things in this world where you have to live by giving away the remnants of beautiful women for the rest of your life. I don't want to walk around town; I want to live in a secluded lifestyle.

How would a monk answer the question of whether there is any point in living in such a clumsy way?
It's disappointing if it's a boring idealism that says it's wonderful to just be around because it's not a human face and there are things you should work hard for.

6 Zen Responses

The true way to be saved is Buddhism

Not everyone wanted to be born with this face and this body. However, they live their whole lives in this body.
It seems like you think of yourself as having a good personality. If that's the case, you should use that personality as a weapon.
Also, if your face is really a problem and you want even that to change, you should get plastic surgery.

However, no matter how handsome or beautiful a woman is, she is not necessarily happy.
People who have had plastic surgery also repeat plastic surgery one after the other, such as the nose this time, then the lips, etc., and they have unnatural faces.

The important thing is that when things don't go well in life, don't blame your face, but rather be yourself without making it a problem.
Even if they are rich or have a good face, they suffer from worries, and themselves
There are sad people who choose to take their lives. To prevent that from happening, they investigate themselves.
It is Buddhism to gain peace of mind that goes beyond people's evaluations and one's own value judgments about what kind of person you are.

Even if you have a disability, don't have money, have bad grades, or are showered with foul language from people,
There is a way to live a way of life and simply live with only facts without becoming one's own problem. If you believe and practice, you will be saved. If you think in your head and prioritize looking at things based on those thoughts, no matter how beautiful you become, you won't be saved.

Please learn and practice Buddhism once. Please participate in zazen sessions, etc., and touch it.

They don't compete because they're clumsy!

If you take the clumsy work from Sarasa-san, what will be left?

I don't like clumsy workmanship.
But I can only think about clumsy things in my head.
The only items I can use to compete in my life are clumsy.
Even I don't understand that.

Is there any point in living a life where only clumsiness is the foundation of life?
When asked,
I'm a monk.
Please base yourself on nembutsu rather than clumsiness.
I'm in that position.

As Sarasa-sama wishes
If you don't have to talk about idealism
If I were in my position,

I'm not going to fight on a clumsy ring.

My playing field is hasunoha.
It's not a beautiful bozu encyclopedia or TV.
It's an internet consultation where you can't see the other person's face, but what is it!
I feel like I want to say that.

Incidentally, my picture is one of the miracles I've lived for 43 years.
The camera, lens, and amount of light were included in the calculation
Precisely because a skilled cameraman took the picture at that angle
It's a miracle piece.
A foul-mouthed friend who knows my real self
There is a picture of someone who looks like a monk. (not my picture)
They say they're glad they didn't show the circumference of their stomach.
But I don't care.
This photo is “150 is good, isn't it?” on Facebook
The answer I wrote here at hasunoha was “2300 thank you”
I'm happy with that.

If you want to continue to compete based on the yardstick of clumsy or beautiful, you need to invest.
But that doesn't mean you're getting paid, is it?
It's a story about who and how you want to use the money you've earned.
When you throw away the yardstick of clumsy or beautiful
I think we can see a new standard of value.

In my case, I'm playing back and playing with each other by drawing thickness and character.
Please use it if it is helpful.

Greed, anger, laziness, and pride are the causes of trouble and suffering

Worries such as greed, anger, laziness, and pride increase worry and suffering.
Just being aware of your own worries can help you control your worries and reduce your worries and suffering.

The sense of happiness increases when you cultivate the four hearts of kindness (I think others are cute), sorrow (I want to get rid of others' worries and suffering), joy (rejoicing in others' happiness), and abandonment (a calm heart that abandons obsessions).

Faces are also muscles, so if you train your facial expressions, they will change quite a bit, but there is a possibility that your mind can change more dramatically than your face.
In Buddhism, there are also specific practices to change the mind.
Please change your mind and have a personality where you can live a happy life even if you become an elderly person living alone.
It's not an idealism; there is a cause for trouble and suffering. If you change the cause, the effect will change.
There is no choice but to change from the part that can be changed.

Also, if you are born in the Pure Land of Paradise, all figures can join the same family of Bodhisattvas. There are no genders in the Pure Land of Paradise.
If you say Namu Amida Buddha, you will always have a happy ending in the Pure Land after death.
Please enjoy life with peace of mind.

Certainly, beauty benefits, and clumsiness is a loss.

If you compare it to a marathon,
It's like starting about 10 km away.
It seems like the match has already been decided,
But we still have to fight.
Find something you can compete with other than your appearance,
I think we have no choice but to keep refining it.

Sarasa-sama
Are you looking for your strengths?
Are you polishing it?

Beautiful men and women who started 10 km away
Those who are content with it will eventually drop out.
But people who continue to shine
Aren't they constantly refining it?

I'm worried about things I don't have,
Jealous and jealous of others,
It's not about holding a grudge against your parents,
While accepting my own clumsiness,
Let's polish our strengths.

Mental plastic surgery - 48 places

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If you want to be beautiful, you can go to neighboring Korea and beat them up.
If you want to be a beautiful person, please come to Saitama Prefecture, which is closer than Korea.
We will perform surgery to remove your clumsy consciousness.
One of my classmates had turned into a gal when it was a class reunion.
It was super bright.
Even at such times, girls say bad words, “You haven't stayed in your prototype.”
I thought. “You're more clumsy than plastic surgery beauties when you talk bad about people like that,” she said.
I pierced the secret hole of meridian and turned it into a scallop.
Positive plastic surgery is rather good yo.
But let's keep our limits.
There are people who say plastic surgery is bad, but the world is full of plastic surgery in many ways.
If you get sick, even surgery is plastic surgery.
Even makeup is “MAKE” on someone else, so plastic surgery.
Buying good clothes and getting dressed is one of the best plastic surgeries.
All foods are full of bleaching, coloring additives, and plastic treatments. TV is full of plastic surgery with dramatizations and edits.
However, if you forget about mental plastic surgery - it becomes Helter Skelter.
You're not clumsy.
They just have a strong sense of clumsiness.
It's been dried now, but it seems that even Karina thought she was ugly.
If you have a strong sense of clumsiness, you won't be satisfied or at ease no matter what kind of appearance you look like.
In order to get rid of that sense of mental clumsiness, by all means, rather than going to Korea, be YES to yourself at a mental cosmetic surgery clinic in Yamaoku Saitama Prefecture in India!
Come discover who you were before you dismissed yourself.
What you should do is a cover for the thought “I'm ugly.”
Please DISCOVER (remove) that COVER and discover your true self (DISCOVER).
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Something seems like an idea

Beautiful women are visited by many men, so I don't know who really loves them.
There are many people who struggle with choosing bad guys.
However, if they don't look good, only people who really love them will stop by.
Don't worry about being scammed by bad guys.
Find someone who cares about you just the way you are.
I'm sure you'll be happy.

Even so, people in the world place too much emphasis on appearance for both men and women.
All of them will eventually become wrinkled and become skeletons.