Yuri-sama
This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.
If you despise yourself too much, call it despicable or despicable, and it becomes a nuisance.
Of course, on the contrary, overtrusting yourself is bothersome as being proud or overly arrogant.
Both are bad worries, so I'm not happy. In terms of Buddhism, it is necessary to adjust so as not to be too biased towards either.
As a reference for the trend where people evaluate themselves negatively, for example, I am surprised that there is such a difference between the face that I think (think) and the face and atmosphere when viewed by people, as you can see by watching the commercial advertisement below for a while.
“Dove Real Beauty Sketch”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8-XKIY5gRo
As in this case, I think there are quite a few places where not only my face but also myself have been underestimated and evaluated, and I have not actually been able to demonstrate my true power in various ways.
Therefore, honest evaluations from others are important in making a decision.
Therefore, as Mr. Kakuyo Jojun also said, Yuri honestly praises that person's strengths and what they think is wonderful, and also makes them realize that they are superior to what they think, by not only one person, but also with other friends who think the same, even when it's casual, so I can make them notice that they are superior to what they think, and awaken them so that they have confidence. Praise them and make them wake up. Oh, this is Kakuyo-san's name as it is (laughs)
Well, even though it's quite noticeable, it can also be difficult verbally, so once you watch the content of the commercial advertisement above, you may be able to understand it even a little bit. Whether it's a letter or email, they say, “You're a more wonderful person than I thought you were. If you watch the video at this address, I think you'll understand it even a little bit.” Please add one word. What do you think..
Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho