The agitation and sermons around me are infuriating

There are waves in human relationships.
There are times when, for better or worse, we are forced to approach, and there are times when we go far away from nature past that.

Getting used to it is important, right?
I think the situation will gradually improve by keeping a distance from the person concerned and getting used to it over time by both parties getting used to it.
I think acting in search of immediate improvements will be counterproductive, so please stay calm.

Hello, I'm Tange, the hidden chubby Koni-chan from Hasunoha.
It is said that Buddha was also plump in his later years.
I also have a pretty slender figure, but I personally feel strong and secure in people who are fuller than me.
The present day may be out for visual purposes, but it is human content.
But if you're not your type, then that's the truth. Don't make your partner expect too much and don't go too deep.
There is the word “eggplant” in sumo terminology.
It is read as “inasu” in okurigana with the okurigana “gone.”
By not directly colliding with an opponent who is rushing towards us, and by dodging them at the ring edge and sending them out of the ring, it means making them leave or go far away from themselves.
In terms of Zen Buddhism, it's about being born in the heart, and not directly bumping into an actual partner, not dealing with them, and dodging Hyoi.
In the first place, regardless of Koshiki, they get involved with their opponents, work on them, and collide with each other, so they become nokotta and nokotta even in their hearts, right?
The facts are over.
It probably becomes a problem because it leaves thoughts behind.

You may not be aware of it, but if you create an atmosphere where you think that you are dealing with them and that you are dealing with them, they will get more and more excited, and the audience will be excited.
Don't ignore it. On the other hand, it causes resentment.
It's not a one-on-one direct confrontation, but rather a showroom where they interact firmly and dodge Inasu and Hyoi on the official ring of the workplace with the connoisseur and spectators.
What I really don't like is “I don't like it!” “I'm in trouble!” If you don't express it in an official place, ❝ remarks ❞ will follow.
By making it clear that it is a white star no matter who makes the judgment, there will be no regrets in my heart, nokotta, or remorse in the future.

Mi-sama, my name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.
Thank you for your support.

I really don't like being encouraged by people around me to have romantic problems.
Also, even if you overdo it, I don't think it will lead to good results.

It's hard to imagine a situation where “I can't say I'm not an occupation type” is written, but isn't it possible to clearly say that to K-senpai? It's probably in an environment where it's very difficult to say that, but why don't you seriously talk to K-senpai, who is still good at taking care of juniors?

I'm sorry it wasn't an ultra C idea.

Mi-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Hmm... Koshiki-san, it's certainly a troublesome problem...

It's nice that Mr. Tange's answers are really humorous and easy to understand..

The content overlaps in many ways with the other respondents, but in this case, Mr. Koishiki-san has a lot of likes for Me, and it's probably appealing through Mr. K... it's just being teased, I want to annoy her, and it's really bad if it's an interest-based harassment... but maybe K actually has a crush on Mi-sama, and it's harassment on the flip side...

Now, indecisiveness can sometimes lead to big regrets.

In order not to increase misunderstandings and prejudice, it is important to clearly refuse what should be refused and to communicate what should be conveyed.

We must deal with it now that the wound doesn't seem to get too big.

If it's hard to say it directly to Mr. K, I think you have to gently communicate it through your best friend, colleague at work, friend of Mr. K, etc., so as not to cause misunderstandings.

When it comes directly, I think there are aspects where it is difficult to convey the emotion of being very sorry... in an email, etc., so after all, when it is appropriate to verbally respond, there may be resistance one-on-one to Mr. K or Mr. Koshiki, so I think it's a good idea to tell them where a third party, such as a best friend or colleague, is also present.

I've had bad experiences, but in sentences on the internet and smartphones, such as emails, there are still some mechanical and inorganic aspects, and although it is easy, there are also places where it is difficult to convey mistakes in easy communication, lack of words or misunderstandings by any means, and it is also difficult to convey the lines and nuances of subtle emotions.

In that respect, if it's face-to-face, I think it's easier to convey feelings through facial expressions, gestures, voice nuances, etc.

By all means, I would like you to consider conveying your honest feelings directly rather than email or LINE.

I pray that the problem will be resolved safely and that there are good measures.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho