hasunoha

I wonder what a one-of-a-kind is.

My sense of self-affirmation is low, and what I like
I don't understand.

When I consulted before, the chief priest gave me words of gratitude, even for the SMAP song.

Aim to be the only one even if you don't become number one.

I understand the meaning of the words you said.

However, I don't know where I should be unique because I don't have a place I like.

What does it mean to aim to be the only one?

Seems too difficult for me.

I don't know how to know what I like or how to aim for.

This is a repeated question, but I would appreciate it if you could let me know.

4 Zen Responses

Make something you can stand up to the point where you don't work hard

There are a lot of things I don't like.

Give up quickly
I won't do it until the last minute or something
I put more work than what I can do on my schedule
You can quickly forget that schedule
More disgusting than not being good at cleaning up things

Oh... it made me so embarrassed when I wrote it m (_ _; m)

But since I have a proper feeling that I have to do it,
I think that's great even for me (hey, it's no good

Only one is that kind of “me.”
There is a Jibun who can't do it
It's a one-of-a-kind.

Rather than searching for a place I like
Acknowledging Nassaku Jibun and properly from there to the next
Something somewhere you can step on so that they can be connected
I think it's about making.

It's me who can't do it,
If you think something has failed so that tomorrow can surely be done,
Type it into Word on your computer and stick it on your desktop
Or like tidying up the desk or cleaning the front door
I'm creating routine work.

Something I can work so hard that I don't work hard
Try making it, and from there you can do something just for you
I think I'll find it.

If that's the case, then it's the only one.

Say goodbye to you, say goodbye. Gassho

It's already a one-of-a-kind

Well, maybe it was a little different.
I'm sorry.
You're already one-of-a-kind.

You are alone in this world.
You are the only mother of your child.
Your husband's wife is only you.
You're the only one.

Please continue to wish your child happiness more than anyone else.
Please wish your husband happiness more than anyone else.
Wish yourself happiness more than anyone else.
You are the only one who can do that.

It's also one-of-a-kind.
I think there are many more unique ones out there.

Don't worry about the shortcomings. Disadvantages are disadvantages and strengths, depending on how you look at it.
indecisive? It's great if they are indecisive and kind to everyone.
a hypocrite? It's better than people who don't do anything or just talk.
Rather than fix your weaknesses, why don't you change the way you look at them?

self care

When I write it in English, it's like I understand something I don't understand... that ambiguity is fine, though.
Well, let's start with the word of inquiry. Remember the original song?
It's “originally a special one-of-a-kind that doesn't have to be number one.”
In other words, it's not something that “becomes” again; it's a lyric called “Let's notice that this is already the case.” It's a cool keyword, but out of context, it's just a source of delusion.
Suffice to say, “don't compare with others, don't rank,” and I think this area is a theme that hasn't changed since your first question.
Also, it has been hypothesized that the cause of “just making a comparison” is a low sense of self-affirmation, but when formulating such a problem, it's too abstract and “what should I do?” I'm worried that I'll just get stuck in the middle of the process.
When I'm reading the story, it's an image of a so-called perforated cup, and even when love is poured out, I wonder if it's a picture where it flows out because it has a hole and doesn't accumulate, “When and by whom was your hole you want to plug?” I think it's counseling.
I think that's a good idea, but why don't you take care of your own body in a more immediate way?
You're tired, aren't you? Where do you feel that fatigue? huh? stomach? waist? shoulder? I wonder if there are places where it's cold? Where do you have trouble moving?
I'll put my palm on such a place and warm it for you. Make sure you feel the warmth in that part of your body. Please observe how your hands take care of your cold areas.
Well, that kind of place is usually a place where people overdo it. So, when you feel the warmth, I want you to say it to yourself. “You're doing your best, aren't you?” You praise your stomach. Praise your lower back. Praise your neck. Praise your eyes. They are all working hard for you and your family.
If I were to give this a name, would it be “hate myself”?

Additional note “low sense of self-affirmation” There is a character limit, so sorry. If you use small and difficult words like this, abstraction diffuses every time you pass through them. You've already overcome this. “It's not high or low, I'm worth it.” There is also a conclusion about the hole “it was a long time ago, not now.” The point is that “the answer and ease of presentation are determined by how the problem is formulated.”

Everyone has the right to life

Whether you don't like yourself or if you aren't being evaluated by society,
Every cell in your body is trying to live.
Even if you're a villain, you have the right to breathe, eat, and excrete as a human being.
Both society and the nation recognize rights, and cells want to live.
Even if there is a meaning of living beyond that, it doesn't get in the way, but there's no problem if you don't have one.