There are no words
Nor is she recognized as a mother
I can only go wild and make strange noises
Is it possible to say that they are still alive?
It goes through your mind, but would you be even more unhappy if you took the life you received yourself?
I'm sorry. I think they're talking from above.
If you think you're unhappy, you're unhappy.
But there are no parents other than Kanashimoko.
I'm sorry, but I have no more words than that.
I don't feel like you want to be able to hug them as a parent.
Aren't they really recognized?
Kanami Miko
This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.
Your child has an intellectual disability... it's really painful.
Are there any specific names for congenital diseases?
Or would it be severe autism?
If children clearly understand the causes and conditions of such behavior, I think there may be ways to deal with and resolve them...
Recently, it has become clear little by little that in the case of autism, it may also be caused by a problem with the state of the intestines.
“Autism, the connection between the gut and brain is clear”
http://natgeo.nikkeibp.co.jp/nng/article/news/14/9948/
I think you may be able to grasp any clues by doing a little research on the child's intestinal condition.
My son hates the word “disability.” We also believe that “disability” is one of the “diseases” that can be treated.
Please don't lose hope, and as Mr. Ryotetsu Mishina also said, the only people I can hug and protect as parents are you and your husband.
I'm sure there's a way to get better. You have also made use of institutions and systems you can rely on, and I hope you can give some thought to the above.
I wish everyone in the family happiness.
Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho
There are also many children who are admitted to a facility if their parents are unable to raise them.
So even if you don't care about it, I think there are ways to “give up.”
You can also talk to a child counseling center.
It may also be possible to take a “vacation” by having them take a “vacation” even temporarily at a facility.
If you're alone (with just your own brain), you may end up with a fixed way of thinking about 100 or 0, life or death, winning or losing.
Let's use other people's brains too.
Talk to a professional in that field.
It can be a city hall or a public health center, so let's honestly ask for help, saying “maybe it's not possible anymore.”
Also, as long as we live, we will suffer.
The reason I'm making such a strange voice is probably because there is some kind of suffering. Exactly, it's alive.
Even animals take a nap when they are satisfied. They move around when there is some suffering, anxiety, or desire.
Why don't you talk to the government office if you can't satisfy your child?
The mother was able to live by pouring a lot of love into her child.
I think the more serious you deal with children, the more pessimistic they are if they don't understand.
But my current bitterness won't last long. No matter how severe the disability is, children will always grow.
When I think about it later, “That was painful.” There will surely come a time when you will feel nostalgic.
I don't have a place to feel at ease right now, and I'm probably doing my best every day, but be sure to make friends (friends) with whom you can share your children's stories.
I wasn't the only one suffering. I think seeing my seniors a little bit makes me feel at ease.