Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

Why shouldn't we commit suicide

Why shouldn't you commit suicide?

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Fear of someone listening to my conversation

I met a friend from my school days after a long time. A lot of conversation was exciting, and we talked a lot while moving around the city. I talked about my recent kids and my kid's school (parents, etc.), but I came home and said, “What should I do if someone I know is actually behind me...

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As a monk, I lack a sense of conscience

Our Jodo sect monk is currently a 30-year-old deputy chief priest. I would like to sort out my feelings, or rather a religious consultation. What do all the great virtues think about their own faith? As for myself, even though I'm in the position of a monk, I don't fully believe in the...

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It's hard for me to leave my job repeatedly for a short period of time

I'm currently 27 years old. Since I graduated from university, I have retired twice as a full-time employee, both in about half a year. I continued to work long hours at the first company, and I got sick and retired. After that, I worked as a freelancer for about 1 year and got a job at a...

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I want to study Buddhism.

How is it common to learn Buddhism? I've read dozens of books, but with words alone, I don't really feel like I've learned Buddhism. I want to incorporate Buddhism into my life. I've been to a temple and heard the Dharma, but other than that, I don't know how to get involved with...

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Is there divine punishment?

I have something to worry about. It's about my husband's father-in-law. My parents-in-law are divorced, and my husband followed my mother-in-law when I was a kid. I have a younger brother with a severe disability, and my husband seems to have taken the place of his father. Even though he's still...

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Is this world a form of causal retaliation?

I left the company due to depression. I was harassed at work and it was really painful. I'm still wondering why this happened, and whether it was my fault. Even if it's my fault, I don't know where to fix it. It makes me feel hopeless that I don't fit into this world or that I shouldn't have...

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It's hard being ignored by my husband

Even after my husband became addicted to the streaming app, even when I talked to him, the fact that there was a reply without looking at all was ignored once every few times. The chat within the stream seems to be fun, and even though I'm having a conversation with a smile on the internet, I'm...

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About what constitutes “I”

I've heard the term Five Pillars. Even if these elements make up “me,” where does the power to link these as “mine” come from? For example, it's the power to make anything personal, such as “my thoughts,” “my senses,” and “my body.” Of course, I think it can also be said that it's because of...

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Is it general employment or employment for people with disabilities

Thank you for always being there. I've talked to you before, but please let me talk about my developmental disability (Asperger's syndrome). About 1 year has passed since I was diagnosed with a developmental disability (Asperger's syndrome). After the previous consultation, I discussed it...

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Is it OK to wait for a married guy with an age difference

I'm in my 20s and he's married in my 40s. I was pressured by my former boss and it's been about a year since we started a relationship. Currently, his family is in a state of collapse, and he only goes home to sleep. We meet about 3 to 4 times a week, and we meet when we have time. They have...

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I can't sleep

Once I stopped taking the prescribed stabilizers and sleep inducers, I almost couldn't sleep. Please tell me how to sleep without medication.

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Die, die, die, die

oh... what blue sky with Sit in the toilet on the second floor Boo When I'm looking up Even though I haven't thought about anything Tears are coming out from here The body If you throw it out Right now this The only thing about pain terminate That is I wonder if it can be...

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Chief Poison Fever's Lover

There is a children's story by Kenji Miyazawa called. There are prohibited fishing laws in the town where the chief was assigned. One of them is poisonous fir, and it is a method of catching fish that has floated by soaking toxic medicine made from naturally derived materials in a river, etc....

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I spit out my current painful feelings

I'm posting here for the first time. I'm not blaming myself for why I was born; I'm envious because I'm angry that I have to have such a painful experience since I was born, and I've been told by people that it's painful, and even though I've been called the heroine of tragedies, it's painful....

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What do you think of patriotism in Buddhism?

　Due to my work, I sometimes have the opportunity to interact with people from China and Korea. Some of them aren't very friendly. I get very angry when they speak ill of Japan or when I see anti-Japanese movements on the news etc. However, on the other hand, I don't agree with the far-right...

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The meaning of life is to die properly

I'm 23 now From birth until today, I never thought it would be fun to be alive If you're going to live an unhappy life for decades to come, it's easier to die now it didn't take long to come to this conclusion However, things didn't go as well as I thought Why is it still alive I've...

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I want to disappear cleanly from this world

　A lot of similar concerns have been received, and I was wondering if I should go out of my way to ask questions, but I have registered an account. I'm just bothered by it. The events happening in this world are like pictorial stories. After all, it's nonsense to go out of your way to live...

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I came to my workplace where the drinking party was absolute.

I'm worried about quitting my job. I'm a 30-year-old civil servant, and I'm tired of the village society that is smaller and too old than I had imagined. At the drinking party the other day, the top of the club said, “I can't really see the abilities of people below. That's why I measure that...

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It's better to put it down for kids

I'm not married, but the boyfriend I'm dating has children! I was happy that my boyfriend said let me get married when I had kids, but they didn't meet my parents even though I knew I had kids for 1 month, and they said it had been 1 month since I told my boyfriend's parents why I didn't say...

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