It's an embarrassing story

No one is happy because of an affair.
Let's break up before they find out.
Even in Hasunoha, there are frequent consultations about infidelity, but everyone is unhappy in common.

I read it.
I read your concerns and feelings. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
Perhaps you yourself know what you are doing.
That's all, so please take your time and face yourself.
Let's slowly think back and think about yourself, your life up until now, your future, the people who are really important to you, what is really important to you, and the people around you.
Since it's life, there are many encounters and events, and there are happy things, fun things, painful things, lonely things, and suffering.
Please don't be in a hurry and think carefully about what is really happy for you in your irreplaceable life and what you want to protect.
So let's stop contacting them for a while.

I sincerely pray that you will be able to get along well and happily through your irreplaceable life with the people you really care about.

　Let's look directly at how shallow the bottom of your “no matter what” is.
Be honest with your wife. My partner's husband too. No matter what is said, it is done as it is.
It's called “no matter what.”
Of course your opponent is the same, right?

No one is cheering.
You probably don't think what you're doing is a good thing.
It's not something everyone is rooting for. It's not something that justifies it, let alone.
It's too late after losing something important.
If you're an adult, decide for yourself what to do.

With my wife (+ kids) and girlfriend
Which is more important?
If she's more important
There is no choice but to get divorced.

though
She probably prioritizes her family.

If that's the case
There's only one answer.
Don't be unhappy because of lust and carnal desire.