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If you think about it normally, I don't think “eternal love” can exist according to Buddhist ideas, but I think “eternal love” is possible because various actions are impermanent.
I interpret impermanent behavior as “constantly changing and cannot be stopped,” but I think there is a negative image from the sound of the word “impermanent.”
However, even after a fight, if they make up, they can get back together even if they break up.
There's always potential for change. Otherwise, we monks would not pursue “enlightenment,” and there would be no way to attain Buddhism.
So the question is what kind of “eternal love” is.
In Buddhism, “love” belongs to obsession, so here we call it “mercy.” Our minds are constantly changing in our daily lives, but how about treating each other with compassion?
I think every day is so wonderful.
However, in order to maintain “compassion,” a great deal of effort and mental strength is required, and I don't think it will be possible unless the other person has a heart of compassion.
Here's an old story, and I'm sure you know the story of “Kasa Jizo,” but who do you think is the greatest in this story?
Is it grandpa or is it Jizo?
I think my grandmother is the greatest.
This is because even though the old man went shopping for mochi, he didn't buy anything, and he talks about putting a hat on Jizo. In response to this, the grandmother believed everything and said, “That was a good thing.” That's because I said words of encouragement.
If you think about it normally, the grandmother would get angry, but the marital relationship where they were able to believe the old man's story is wonderful. Isn't that why Mr. Jizo brought us his treasure?
I want that to be the case too.
I've written about it for a long time, but eternity is something beyond the continuity of the “now,” which is constantly changing.
Whether or not to make it “eternal love” is a matter of mutual consideration. Please don't be afraid of parting ways, and enjoy your precious present better.
