I dropped out of a vocational school and started a part-time job, but I quit after six months, became NEET again, and my first part-time job became NEET over and over again, and now I'm still NEET
The last part time I worked was three years ago
I'm afraid of work and it's unbearable, and I'm anxious because there are so many things I don't understand
I feel like I'm going to stay like this for the rest of my life and it's horrible I want
How can I become a proper adult?
“How can I become a proper adult?”
Oh, I don't want to die anyway.
If that's the case, why do you say you want to die?
First, when faced with inconveniences or difficulties, stop putting them together with the expression “I want to die” one by one.
Changing jobs isn't necessarily bad. Sometimes, in some cases, it may be necessary to be unemployed. However, if words such as “I want to die” are uttered honestly, humans will immediately stop thinking.
This isn't limited to you, though.
Good morning. I read the question, they say they want to die, but if work continues and income stabilizes, is that feeling likely to go away?
I don't know what kind of work you've been doing until now, so I'm sorry if I missed it.
From my experience, I interviewed part-time workers, worked together again, and when I first became a monk, I worked part-time with monks on two pairs of sandals.
It's common for people to quit their jobs, and I don't think they need to be bothered that much; there are even people who quit within a few hours due to the atmosphere of the company they worked for or compatibility with the people who taught them.
I feel that there are many people who can't ask questions to their superiors as one of the reasons why part-time workers quit their jobs faster. Of course, there may be various causes for this, but people who come to ask questions even though they are nervous are often thought to have ambition, so I think there are many people who are patient even if they can't remember their work right away.
Of course, work is important, but I think it's also good to take on the challenge comfortably without putting effort into your shoulders by taking care of it as the second most important thing.
The current recruitment status for part-time jobs is unknown due to the effects of COVID-19, but why not look for a job that you think would be even a little more fun than you think of continuing to work?
What kind of work have you done?
What part of those jobs didn't suit them?
working itself?
Workplace relationships?
Do you have any mental or physical illness?
What is your image of a “proper adult”
Specifically, what can someone do?
What does it mean to keep working patiently without quitting
I think it's important.