I want you to tell me good things about revenge against my mother

Hello.

I think I have a lot of trouble.
They probably also have mixed feelings with their parents.

However, it is impossible to put words on the assumption that you are currently being violent and that you will be violent in the future.

Promise me you won't do anything similar in the future.

Once you've made up your mind, ask again.

　Generally, what you receive as a result of doing something is called karma, but doing an act now that becomes future work is also called karma in the sense of an act.
In India, not limited to Buddhism, an act and its result are a set, and I think that if you do something, the result will always return to you.
Even in Buddhism, it is said that karma comes back to oneself.

Karma isn't just about what you receive and do in this lifetime. Includes things from previous lives that have been repeated hundreds of millions of times.
Once you have attained enlightenment, this life will be the end, and after that, you will be reborn and you will not receive the results of your work so far. As long as you don't understand it, you'll be reborn into something else.

Seen from the law of karma, when “a parent hurts me,” what is hurt is the work of the person who was hurt. What you hurt is the work of the person who hurt you. There is a parent-child relationship, but each person undertakes their own work.
When “I hurt my parents,” what was hurt is the work of the person who was hurt. What you hurt is the work of the person who hurt you.

Work done on an equal footing will produce equal results.
The work you do to your life below your own will produce fewer results.
The work you do for a life superior to your own will produce many results.
The exception is work that helps lives in need or lives in distress. The act of rescuing an emergency has particularly large consequences.

Great acts of good that determine that you will always be born in the celestial world in the next life
There are major misdeeds that determine that one will surely fall into hell in the next life.

What promises to go to the celestial world is to enter the stage of enlightenment before that, even if it is not complete enlightenment. Even if you are just convinced of impermanence, suffering, and selflessness, you will enter the stage of enlightenment.

There are six jobs that determine going to hell.
① Killing my father,
② Killing my mother,
③ Killing an enlightened person,
④ Getting Shakyamuni hurt (this is impossible anymore),
⑤ Making the hikyu and the others who work hard at ascetic practices get along
⑥ Live as much as you like without believing in karma, cause and effect, or the afterlife at all.

There are two types of motivations for doing good deeds.
① Calmly understand what is good or bad, and do your best to never commit evil and work hard for good.
② Calculate that karma will come back to you, and work hard to be good without committing evil as much as possible.

Doing calculations and not committing bad deeds is also a good act.

　Taking revenge may not necessarily make your heart feel at peace.

I understand that what you've received up until now has been pretty horrible. They may have been toxic parents for you.
Even if you ask me where he is now and how things are going, it's probably just annoying Ben Hym right now. But I think asking that kind of thing is an expression of “the feeling of wanting to know the child's present” and “the feeling that the child is doing well.” I think there is a feeling that they are worried about children. But when it comes to actual words and actions against Ben Hym, it's like Ben Hym remembers murderous intentions. I think it was painful, painful, and uncomfortable for Ben Hym. It's uncomfortable for me, as someone else, to listen to it. Even though I didn't think “let's abuse you” from the beginning, the words and actions at that time became extremely violent. As a result, it may be that they were only able to become such parents.

I have 3 children. I never meant to trample on a child's personality. Violence is not allowed. I'm trying to admonish myself that words sometimes become violent, so I have to be careful. But I've hit it only a few times. I have uttered words that hurt my heart. I can't say bossy things either, if not often. Humans also don't always say the right words and don't always take the right actions. Precisely because there are so many things I can't do, I regret it in front of the Buddha and pledge to live properly in front of the Buddha.
There is no feeling that parents would commit violence against their children. It's something you shouldn't have. However, every human being makes mistakes, and they have the weakness of not being able to correct mistakes. The mother was probably also trying to assume that her actions were “correct as a parent.” But somewhere, “is this really OK?” I think there were times when I asked myself that question.

In response to violence, even if you return it with violence, it will only cause pain and injury to your opponent. It won't heal your heartbreak. Buddha said, “In this world, if you have a grudge to repay your grudge, your grudge will never stop.” They say “Udhanavarga.” I think having a heart of mercy rather than grudge will lighten Ben Hym's heart.

　Up until now, your mother must have had a lot of unpleasant feelings. I sympathize with that, but accusing violence is wrong. If you really want revenge, don't do bad things to others that your mother did to you. Live a way of life where people don't hate you. That's number one. If you return it with violence, one day you will be returned to someone else for the same thing. I really think so. It's important to stop once when you think you're right, reflect on what was lacking and what was bad, and make use of it next time. I understand hate, but it is necessary to calmly review hate itself. There was a comic called “Samurai Giants,” and it's a story where the main character, who has a grudge against the Giants, joined the Giants and made a mess, but if they cut corners, they are dropped to the 2nd Army, and when they play an active role, they stand at the top. In the end, I think what I saw with revenge was that it was revenge that made me think that the Giants wouldn't be possible without this protagonist.
I think you should tell your mother that you can't live without this son. Work hard, earn a stable income, and do everything about the house. Indulge yourself by eating out by chance. If I get sick, I take care of them, take them to the hospital, and I can't live without you anymore. You should be horrified to think you're gone. this is a great revenge.

I read your question.
I have a strong hatred for my mother that is hard for me to imagine, and I have no worries or hesitation about wanting to kill my mother if I can hurt her.
Furthermore, they are asking for recommendations on the best revenge. I don't have any suggestions in that direction, but I'll tell you what I thought.
Why don't you give up on the best revenge and look for the best course of action for yourself? This is because it is easy to imagine that the act of revenge causes social disadvantages for you. First, keep your distance from your mother you hate. Find a way to avoid getting involved. How about taking care of yourself and being able to greedily think about ways to get closer to happiness.

I read it.
The best revenge is for you to live sincerely and happily.

It is best to keep yourself away from the various heartbreaks and damage you have suffered, break that negative chain, and live peacefully and with peace and security away from anger, hatred, and murderous intent.

If you get angry, hate, hurt people, and kill people, you too will shoulder that negative chain, and you will walk the same path. In other words, it will inherit the negative.

It's amazing that you can live every day peacefully with true peace of mind, and that is breaking the negative chain.

Please break the negative chain of foolishness firmly, so that your heart will be happy, be reincarnated from the bottom of your heart, and please walk a good path and work hard.

I wholeheartedly support you.

It's just my personal opinion. Gassho Nanban Amida Buddha

Mother Teresa
“The opposite of love is not hate but indifference”
It is reported that he said that.

The mother
They probably still had some love for you as a parent.
if you want revenge for it
It's not about hating my mother
That person's existence as a mother
It will completely disappear from within you.

What if I kill him
Who is the mother in you
without disappearing
You'll be sitting there forever.