About the world after death

I read it.
Why aren't you thinking like that right now?
If you don't mind, I'd like you to tell us about your situation, feelings, and thoughts to the extent possible.

I think there's a no-brainer reason to think that, but please take a slow breath and calm your mind.

And I would like you to look at yourself and your surroundings once again.

I'm very sorry, but I think what you are facing now is not about death, but about your own life and precious relationships.

Please feel free to tell me about yourself carefully.

I'm looking forward to seeing you.

I read it again.
I read that you are living with your son in a very difficult situation right now. I feel like you are carrying a lot of burdens on your shoulders. I really understand that you are in pain.

As for the world after death in your question, we will visit various places even after death. The path you take will also change depending on what you do.
The Buddha guides all of us like that, but I think it will also change depending on what the person who passed away thinks. Where we go will naturally change depending on where we want to go and how we want to go, and our results will naturally change depending on what we have done.

You probably want to be freed from your current suffering, but your son's life and yours are truly irreplaceable, and both your son's future and yours lie ahead.

If you don't mind, for example, online consultations conducted at this location or hasunoha
https://hasunoha.jp/talks
Or lifestyle counseling at a local government or human rights consultation at the Legal Affairs Bureau
http://www.moj.go.jp/JINKEN/index_soudan.html
But why not take advice from third parties as much as possible?

Please try actively consulting with as many people as possible without holding them only inside of you.
There will always be a way to live, and there is a way for you and your son to live. Please try to calm your mind and contact us again.
We are waiting for you.

I'll start with the conclusion.

There is no guarantee that we can stay together, even if we overdo it.
This is because, living in this way, we are made up of soul, consciousness, and body, so death is nothing but a change in the body, and the soul and consciousness are immortal.
When it comes to that, of course, it differs from person to person depending on what kind of consciousness (thought) they lived with and whether they chose death. Therefore, if you think about it simply, they are not on the same level, and it means that there is no guarantee that they will be together.
So, that choice is extra painful and results.
Also, my son was born to move on with my son's life. If you stop that precious life due to selfish circumstances, you will regret it even more.
You should reconsider.

When it comes to living, there are many things the government (government office) can do, such as welfare. Even if the administration becomes cumbersome, it is a citizen's right to live, so please use someone's help and assert your rights in a dignified manner.
If it was municipal housing, incidentally, please talk about the situation and receive as much support as possible.

For reference, I'll tell you about the destination after death.
Destinations after death range from the highest celestial world to the human world, the ghost world, the animal world, and hell.
Where you go in it varies depending on the person's work, so at least a third party doesn't know until you actually go. The person himself may understand a little bit because it is something he has done.
Since we live the continuation of this lifetime, the way we have this lifelong heart and the good and bad acts of this lifetime will be the power to determine the next life after death.
If you have a similar mindset and similar good and bad acts, there is a high possibility that you will be born in the same place even after death.
In other words, if lovers are opposed by their surroundings and are not satisfied with each other, there is a high possibility that they will go to the same place. That might be hell, though.
Conversely, in the case of being unreasonable, or rather, killing a family member, and then yourself, then there is a high possibility that your own misdeeds will increase as much as the misdeeds that killed your family are applied to you, and you will be born separately from the innocent family that was killed.

While we are living as humans until death, we make quite a few bad deeds by worrying, suffering, and having a bad heart, so it's better to work hard on good deeds as well.

Even if you don't move your body, stay calm with only your heart, wish for happiness in all your lives, or just say a quick greeting with just words or attitude, it's a good act called a “Japanese face love language.”
Like a spell, whether you wish for good, “may all lives be happy,” or hope that evil will disappear, such as “may all life's worries and suffering go away,” that alone is a good act of an extremely strong heart. It's a good idea to do good deeds as much as possible like that until you die.

Hello.

I read “Thank You from the Questioner.”
You're in a state where neither one nor the other is going, and you want to do better with your son.
Before getting or not getting divorced, or making up your mind, let's consider that there may be other paths. For example, your options don't include you working. There may be some circumstances, but if living expenses are not included or child support cannot be received, for example, why not consider working for you. Children are small now and may be attached to their mother, but that doesn't mean they will last a lifetime. If you go to preschool, kindergarten, or elementary school, people will tell you that it's more fun to be with your friends.

Below is a link to “NPO corporation Suicide Prevention Network Style”
https://www.soudannet-kaze.jp/
Let's talk about it. Maybe we can find a better way.

I also read Thank You. You're having a lot of problems, aren't you?

It's like an intricately intertwined thread, and it takes time to unwind, but there must always be a way to solve it.

Are you uneasy about life after divorce, so you want to overdo it? Everyone has anxiety. It is necessary to take a step beyond anxiety. If you give up, that's where it all ends.

As my teacher explained about the world after death as explained in Buddhism. I don't know where they will be born.

Also, even if it is suicide, it is a felony called haraizai (haraizai) in Buddhism. Furthermore, killing an immediate family member is a very serious crime called the Five Treason Sins (misdemeanor).

What's more, overdoing it is murder because the person himself doesn't want it.

So, I don't want you to do that.

As explained by Senshi, let's calm down and talk to a counseling agency. I'll always open the way.

A lot of painful things overlapped
The feeling that I want to die
It's been fully conveyed here.

There is a Buddhist word called “all over the place.”
Amida Nyorai says she will save me
It means attaining Buddhism in the same Pure Land.
So probably
Both mother and child are supposed to be Buddha in the same place.

But it's better than being together when we die
Let's get through this together.
If it's hard for you
Please leave your child alone at the facility.

“Impossible in the heart” is a beautiful word that sounds
In short, it's just about killing yourself and your opponent.